Our Resident Real Fairy Godmother Michelle Zelli says: Dear Milada, I am sorry to hear you’re caught up in the craziness and pain of this common romantic conundrum, one I work ...

Our Resident Real Fairy Godmother Michelle Zelli says: Dear Laura Jane, I wish I could reassure you but am sorry to say there’s every chance you are being Gaslighted. The change ...

Our Resident Real Fairy Godmother Michelle Zelli says: Dear Hannah, It’s hurtful when a friend distances for another but it’s also an opportunity to review your own values around friendships and ...

Our Resident Real Fairy Godmother Michelle Zelli says: Dear Shelly, It’s not unusual for ‘meet your parents’ arrangements to cause angst. Perhaps your boyfriend is setting up expectations of being judged ...

Our Resident Real Fairy Godmother Michelle Zelli says: Dear Lydia, This is a painful and difficult situation, but you are right to protect the atmosphere in your own home. Of course ...

Our Resident Real Fairy Godmother Michelle Zelli says: Oh darling, this could be the most perfect gift you have ever received! The story is horrible, disloyalty and dishonesty every which way ...

Maybe instead of asking him out, you should get to know him as friends. You might then, be able to tell what he thinks of you, and to have some ...

Our Resident Real Fairy Godmother Michelle Zelli says: Dear John, It’s a quandary but appears that you would tick lots of boxes from willing and eager women out on the dating ...

Our Resident Real Fairy Godmother Michelle Zelli says: Oh my goodness, you’re a good friend. It sounds as though your pal has a chronic case of Reactive Attachment Disorder. He is ...

Our Resident Real Fairy Godmother Michelle Zelli says: Dear Sonya I am sorry to hear you suffering from this common modern dilemma.So many women find themselves in this mind-curdling situation, where ...

When he told you about it- was he apologetic? He may have gone along with the banter to fit in with his friend's opinions rather than forming ones of his ...

Hi Sofe, Some friendships are built to last a lifetime and others are not. Perhaps yours is the latter. Consider why you became friends in the first place as this ...

Hi Jay, If you talked about the singing thing before he said he didn’t want it to go any further, then perhaps this would not bring him back to you. It ...

Hi Damonte, I would suggest putting some of your work on You Tube. A lot of artists have been discovered this way- take Justin Bieber for example and look how successful ...

Our Resident Real Fairy Godmother Michelle Zelli says: Oh Pippa, no wonder you’re feeling upset and hurt! Your situation isn’t as straightforward as it might at first appear and it would be ...

Our Resident Real Fairy Godmother Michelle Zelli answers one of our reader dilemmas: Dear Natalie, It can be a shock to the system when we step into the big wide dating ...

Hi Paige, It's possible that if he grew up in a house where his mum or sister cleaned that he expects the same from you. If you would like it ...

Hi Kate, You legally have to give your employee a reference if they leave. It might be short and sweet but she has to give you a reference. If this does ...

Hi Rich, Perhaps once you decide to meet up with her you could explain why you have been so preoccupied. Perhaps she thought that this is what it would be like ...

Hi Harriet, Even if he wants to be with you- leaving his wife will still come as a huge adjustment as his life is about to change dramatically so he ...

Hi Margaret, Your partner should be with you in sickness and in health, whether you have exchanged vows or not. It is one of the unwritten rules of relationships; he should ...

Hi Vet Student, It sounds like being in a long distance relationship has had its ups and downs for you both, especially while you've not been able to travel to ...

Hi Sage, If your sex drive is the same as it always was, it sounds like the answer might lie with your partner. How are you currently broaching the subject? ...

Hi Sarah, Moving in with someone can bring up some teething problems at first, however if it's fairly new, then you might be able to nip things in the bud ...