Hi there, Do yourself a massive favour. Take mixed signals as a no. We females have this tendency to over analyse hot and cold romantic behaviour. We make excuses for ...

Hi there, I wonder if you’ve always carried a candle for your ex, or whether the obsession started recently. If it’s recent, it could point to a bout of boredom ...

Hi there, I’d really like you to define a ‘fake friend’ for me. But I will hazard a guess that it means people who have captivating, attractive traits yet tend ...

Hi there, I’m sorry this has been so painful for you and that you have not yet got full closure about this affair. However, I have to wonder what led ...

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “This is a tricky one. I can see that you love your boyfriend very much and are desperate for him to be a ...

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “You need to start by looking at the reasons why you split up in the first place. You were together for two years ...

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “It sounds to me like your issues with your partner long pre-date the lockdown and the inevitable tensions this will cause for any ...

“I’m not sure I understand if you are motivated for change or not as this is required .. motivation is central in change in any relationship. Clearly you’ve tried speaking ...

It seems to me pretty clear that you want this man to commit to you, in terms of being in an exclusive relationship.  However, he has made it quite clear he ...

Its not clear from your message whether he began seeing you both at the same time, however it sounds to me like he may have been with the other woman ...

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “I appreciate that you are finding the situation upsetting but we are dealing with a two-year-old child here. Give the little fella a ...

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “Blimey, you are coming to me with this now? I say now because this woman is your ‘wife.’ I like to think you ...

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “As you say, your girlfriend was single at the time and so was your friend. They had a drunken fling on Valentine’s Day ...

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “One of the biggest causes of relationship break-ups that I see is through mismatched sex drives - so you are by no means ...

You’ve known each other 6 months, so its still fairly early days in your friendship. If you feel in love with her now then you’ve had romantic feelings for her ...

Hi Jay, If you talked about the singing thing before he said he didn’t want it to go any further, then perhaps this would not bring him back to you. It ...

Hi Stu, Perhaps the reason you have not put this to bed is because she said she would think about what you had every day and maybe you are still doing ...

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “It would be good to know a little more about your circumstances - particularly your age and why you feel you are growing ...

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “Your boyfriend has been unbelievably stupid and insensitive to tell you this. It’s no wonder you are furious and thinking about breaking up ...

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “This is one of the toughest dliemmas I have ever had to unravel. All my instincts say ‘ditch him’ but you are adamant ...

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “You’re right: he’s got to go. But are you the one to make sure that he does go? I am not so sure. ...

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “You don’t actually say what advice you are looking for but you are understandably torn between these two guys and I imagine you ...

Hi there, Forgive my candour, but this man isn’t really your boyfriend. He may call himself your boyfriend, he may state you’re in a relationship, but he is simply filing ...

Hi there, My advice regarding this situation is clear cut – if the relationship is damaging your confidence and making you miserable, you need to leave. People’s actions (or lack ...