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16 April 2020

Should I move on and forget about him?

Hi there, Do yourself a massive favour. Take mixed signals as a no. We females have this tendency to over analyse hot and cold romantic behaviour. We make excuses for ...
15 April 2020

I have a partner but can't stop thinking about an old flame- any advice?

Hi there, I wonder if you’ve always carried a candle for your ex, or whether the obsession started recently. If it’s recent, it could point to a bout of boredom ...
14 April 2020

How do I deal with fake friends?

Hi there, I’d really like you to define a ‘fake friend’ for me. But I will hazard a guess that it means people who have captivating, attractive traits yet tend ...
13 April 2020

How can I move on from him without being judged?

Hi there, I’m sorry this has been so painful for you and that you have not yet got full closure about this affair. However, I have to wonder what led ...
12 April 2020

My boyfriend has no time for me- any advice?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “This is a tricky one. I can see that you love your boyfriend very much and are desperate for him to be a ...
11 April 2020

I want my ex back- any advice?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “You need to start by looking at the reasons why you split up in the first place. You were together for two years ...
9 April 2020

I'm not happy in my relationship anymore but we're in lockdown- what should I do?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “It sounds to me like your issues with your partner long pre-date the lockdown and the inevitable tensions this will cause for any ...
7 April 2020

I feel more like a housemate than a wife, what should I do?

“I’m not sure I understand if you are motivated for change or not as this is required .. motivation is central in change in any relationship. Clearly you’ve tried speaking ...
6 April 2020

He told me things are complicated with his ex- am I being naive?

It seems to me pretty clear that you want this man to commit to you, in terms of being in an exclusive relationship.  However, he has made it quite clear he ...
4 April 2020

My boyfriend has another girlfriend- how can he love us both?

Its not clear from your message whether he began seeing you both at the same time, however it sounds to me like he may have been with the other woman ...
3 April 2020

I have a clingy stepson, any advice?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “I appreciate that you are finding the situation upsetting but we are dealing with a two-year-old child here. Give the little fella a ...
2 April 2020

How do I please my wife?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “Blimey, you are coming to me with this now? I say now because this woman is your ‘wife.’ I like to think you ...
1 April 2020

Why did my friend sleep with my girlfriend when he knew how I felt about her?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “As you say, your girlfriend was single at the time and so was your friend. They had a drunken fling on Valentine’s Day ...
31 March 2020

Should I cheat on my partner?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “One of the biggest causes of relationship break-ups that I see is through mismatched sex drives - so you are by no means ...
30 March 2020

I think I'm in love with my close friend- what should I do?

You’ve known each other 6 months, so its still fairly early days in your friendship. If you feel in love with her now then you’ve had romantic feelings for her ...
27 March 2020

Should I serenade him with my music?

Hi Jay, If you talked about the singing thing before he said he didn’t want it to go any further, then perhaps this would not bring him back to you. It ...
26 March 2020

Should I contact her after 30 years to say sorry?

Hi Stu, Perhaps the reason you have not put this to bed is because she said she would think about what you had every day and maybe you are still doing ...
25 March 2020

Why do I no longer enjoy the company of my friends?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “It would be good to know a little more about your circumstances - particularly your age and why you feel you are growing ...
24 March 2020

Why am I so bothered about what my partner thinks of my nose?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “Your boyfriend has been unbelievably stupid and insensitive to tell you this. It’s no wonder you are furious and thinking about breaking up ...
21 March 2020

How can I help my partner to be less insecure?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “This is one of the toughest dliemmas I have ever had to unravel. All my instincts say ‘ditch him’ but you are adamant ...
20 March 2020

My best mate's boyfriend has cheated on her- should I tell her?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “You’re right: he’s got to go. But are you the one to make sure that he does go? I am not so sure. ...
19 March 2020

I'm in love with two people, who should I choose?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “You don’t actually say what advice you are looking for but you are understandably torn between these two guys and I imagine you ...
17 March 2020

My boyfriend is dishonest- should I stay with him?

Hi there, Forgive my candour, but this man isn’t really your boyfriend. He may call himself your boyfriend, he may state you’re in a relationship, but he is simply filing ...
16 March 2020

I feel like my boyfriend doesn't care about me- any advice?

Hi there, My advice regarding this situation is clear cut – if the relationship is damaging your confidence and making you miserable, you need to leave. People’s actions (or lack ...