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19 November 2015

Should I tell him I've quit smoking?

Hi Sinead, It is understandable that he does not want to risk going through the hurt of losing someone else he cares about to cancer. The proof is always in your actions ...
19 November 2015

Why is my partner playing games with me?

If the times you are calling are not suitable then perhaps suggest that he calls you so he is not just about to go to bed- you may be catching ...
19 November 2015

Is my ex playing mind games with me?

It sounds like you have done everything within your power to try and explain yourself to get him back. It seems that this message has made him lose his trust ...
18 November 2015

My husband has been sexting another woman- what should I do?

Hi Broken, The first thing I would do is enrol in some couple's counselling to explore why he felt the need to text someone else other than you in a ...
18 November 2015

How can I communicate with my wife more effectively?

Hi Mark, In some respects- men and woman do speak a different language because we are motivated by different things and are sensitive to others that our partners might not ...
17 November 2015

Why doesn't my partner talk to me about anything?

Hi Jade, This can be a difficult habit to break if it has always been this way. Perhaps some relationship counselling would help you to address this issue. He may ...
16 November 2015

Does he like me or is he just shy?

Hi Rachel, Blushing can be a sign that someone likes you as can a change in facial expression or eye contact- people have less control over these things than they ...
13 November 2015

Should I cancel my holiday because of my friend?

Hi Chris, It sounds extreme to cancel your holiday, especially if you have been looking forward to it. Plus you might lose your money if you do this. She might ...
13 November 2015

Why won't my wife let me near her?

Hi David, It is possible that this might be more about her than it is about you. Perhaps she is feeling insecure in herself and it's causing her to push ...
11 November 2015

How can I tell her how I feel after I kissed her sister?

Hi John, Chances are, if she suspected that you liked her before, she probably doesn't anymore after you kissed her sister. If you really like her then it might be ...
10 November 2015

Should I forget about the married woman I have met online?

Hi Mike, If you love her then you could wait, however 5 years is a long time to wait for someone and what if she changes her mind? If she is ...
10 November 2015

Should I continue to see him or forget about him?

If the only reason you want to be his is friend is because you hope he might change his mind then it may not be such a good idea. ...

6 November 2015

How do I deal with jealousy triggered by suspicion?

Hi Milo, I would first try to figure out if this suspicion is a result of you or your partner. If you are an insecure person at heart, you might ...
27 October 2015

Why is my husband so upset that I bought a vibrator?

Hi Catrin, If he knew you had a vibrator when you moved in and he bought one for you when you first got your house together, it doesn't sound the ...

17 October 2015

Why do I only see my girlfriend as sweet and pretty?

Hi Jay,   It is good that you are still attracted to how pretty and sweet your girlfriend is after being together so long, but it sounds like this is getting in ...

17 October 2015

Why do I only see my girlfriend as sweet and pretty?

Hi Jay,   It is good that you are still attracted to how pretty and sweet your girlfriend is after being together so long, but it sounds like this is getting in ...

16 October 2015

Why does my boss treat me differently to the others in my office?

Hi Ashley, Given how long you spend at work, it’s an awful shame that you cry most days and have endured a lot of trouble during your working hours. Perhaps asking the ...
16 October 2015

When will the rumours stop about me and my boss?

Hi Emma, Co-workers love a bit of gossip; it makes the day a little more illuminated and the time pass quicker. It also takes the heat off them if they have ...
15 October 2015

Am I with my partner for the sake of the kids?

Hi Anonymous, I would suggest booking an appointment with a sex counsellor before making any decisions on your relationship. It might be that a professional could help you figure out ...
14 October 2015

Why has my bridesmaid refused to come to my hen do?

Hi Sienna, Bridesmaids need to be your support system during the wedding process. If you feel she is not helping you in any way, then perhaps you could choose someone ...
12 October 2015

Will we ever resume our relationship again?

Hi Spark, If he has doubts over whether he will hurt you in the future then perhaps you've had a lucky escape. It might not have been a very secure ...
9 October 2015

Why do we have sex so infrequently?

Hi Kimberly, Perhaps the honeymoon period didn't happen for you because you waited so long to have sex. By that time you may have been so comfortable with one another ...
8 October 2015

I like to touch myself with silk-is this normal?

Everyone gets aroused by different textures, if this is something that works for you, it is nothing to feel ashamed about. A lot of people wear underwear made form silk, ...

8 October 2015

Why won't my partner let me touch him while he's asleep?

Hi JD, When someone is asleep it’s a very vulnerable place to be if they  wake up and realise that they are being touched without their consent or knowledge. It is ...
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