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22 December 2019

I feel like my husband takes me for granted- what should I do?

Hi Anonymous, Although you say that your husband isn’t communicating with you, I would say that his actions are communicating something powerful to you. When someone values and respects you, ...
21 December 2019

Why was he intimate with me when he has a girlfriend and a child?

I'm sorry to hear that this has happened to you. It's always hard to loose a relationship with someone that we have got close to, particularly if we have also ...
21 December 2019

Am I right to feel betrayed and angry at my ex boyfriend's behaviour?

Hi Anonymous, Firstly, it’s not wrong to feel a certain way, so no need to feel guilty about feeling angry. Our feelings are our feelings, there’s no right or wrong. ...
20 December 2019

Are we compatible?

The only people that can decide if you are incompatible long term is the two of you. Esther Perel talks about how we are in multiple relationships with the same ...
20 December 2019

Should I trust him after he ghosted me?

Dr Rina Bajaj says:  Hi Anonymous, Firstly, I just wanted to say that his Ghosting says more about him than it does about you! It’s easy to build up a ...
19 December 2019

Why does my daughter make my blood boil?

It's inevitable that every parent-child relationships will have their testing times, and it's also really easy to get stuck in perspectives in relationships, whether it's with our partners, children, colleagues ...
19 December 2019

I still love my ex but he has a girlfriend- any advice?

Clarissa Bloom says: It can be hard to see a former partner move on with their life and meet someone new, however this is the inevitable difficulty around a break ...
18 December 2019

I'm ready to experience my first relationship but what am I doing wrong?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “You sounds like a great catch! Don’t be too hard on yourself. We all have feelings of insecurity, particularly in our teenage years, ...
18 December 2019

I'm stuck in a love triangle- what should I do?

Clarissa Bloom says: Whether they are truly willing to leave their wife or whether it is just talk is not the main factor. The reality is you need to end ...
17 December 2019

I'm in a long distance relationship- how do I cope when she goes back home?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “I think the key word in your letter is ‘recently.’ This is a brand new relationship - you are both in the first ...
17 December 2019

My friend has bulimia but I'm not meant to have found out- how do I help her?

Clarissa Bloom says: It can be difficult when told something you're not supposed to know, but the most important thing is your actions and how you handle that information. You ...
16 December 2019

How can I tell my boyfriend that I only see him as a friend?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “You are going to have to make that break. Not splitting up with him because you are worried that you will ‘break his ...
16 December 2019

My daughter's husband regularly visits his ex- should I tell her how I feel about it?

Clarissa Bloom says: Meeting ex partners can always be a difficult situation, especially if they share a friendship base or work together. This is something that most relationships should discuss ...
15 December 2019

Should I leave my partner before or after Christmas?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “What a sad situation! I really feel for you and there is no easy way out of this. First of all, you have ...
15 December 2019

Someone at work makes me feel like I'm not good at my job- how do I handle this?

Rachael Lloyd at eharmony says: The truth about confidence is that it’s an inside job. You can wing it all you like, you can dress the part, but unless you ...
14 December 2019

My partner doesn't want children- should I stay with him in case he changes his mind?

Rachael Lloyd at eharmony says: Many years have passed since I was 18, but I clearly remember feeling older than my years at that stage in my life. It was ...
13 December 2019

Why am I drawn to one of my girlfriend's best friends?

Rachael Lloyd at eharmony says: Regarding your current relationship, this could be a case of a two-year itch. Perhaps you’ve reached a stage at which your relationship is leaning towards ...
12 December 2019

Should I cut my mother in law out of my life?

Jo Howarth says: I would start by sitting her down and putting your boundaries in place. Tell her exactly what you consider to be acceptable behaviour and that if she ...
11 December 2019

I find my partner's relationship with his sister odd- how can I help the situation?

Jo Howarth says: What does your other half say about it? Does he think it's odd or is that just how they are as a family? My instinct is that ...
10 December 2019

Should I tell my guy friend that I've started to see him differently?

Jo Howarth says: Talk to him. Please don't feel awkward and ashamed for realising the feelings you have for him. My husband is my best friend and has been since ...
9 December 2019

My husband's dad has been having an affair- how do we handle Christmas Day now?

Dear Anonymous, This does sound like an unexpectedly complex situation and it’s no wonder that emotions may be running high. The thing that you and your husband have  in common ...
9 December 2019

My husband came home with a hickey on his arm- should I be worried?

Jo Howarth says: Do you trust him? Do you believe him? At the end of the day that's all that matters. If you don't trust or believe him then why ...
8 December 2019

Why does my partner lie to his ex about our relationship?

Noel McDermott says: This is a tangled situation. First I would say that your partner cannot allow himself to be taken hostage by his wife in this way. No one ...
8 December 2019

How can I escape my controlling boyfriend?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “If I were in your shoes, I would get out of that destructive relationship as fast as I could. He sounds like a ...