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26 December 2019

How can I help my daughter with her depression?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “I really feel for you. Please be assured: you have done nothing wrong and it sounds like you are a wonderful mother to ...
26 December 2019

Why is my partner's family causing so many issues ahead of our wedding?

Rachael Lloyd at eharmony says: I’m so sorry to hear that during a time when you should be excitedly planning a wedding, other people seem hellbent on causing rifts. That ...
25 December 2019

Are my trust issues making me doubt my current relationship?

Rachael Lloyd at eharmony says: Firstly, I’m sorry to hear about the betrayal you suffered in your last relationship. Unless you’ve been cheated on, it’s hard to fully understand the shock ...
24 December 2019

I have feelings for my manager but I still love my boyfriend- any advice?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “I really feel for you because you are stuck in a love triangle which is largely not of your making. Let’s deal with ...
24 December 2019

Am I overthinking my friend's relationship?

Rachael Lloyd at eharmony says: This sounds like a confusing and intense situation which has ripple effects across a whole group of people, including yourself, your boyfriend and respective friends. My ...
23 December 2019

My boyfriend doesn't wants kids but I do- any advice?

Rachael Lloyd at eharmony says: One of the most challenging things about relationships is that you can be deeply in love with someone and yet face dealbreakers which prevent you going ...
23 December 2019

I miss my happy mum- what can I do to help her feel better?

Hi anonymous, It sounds as if you have witnessed and struggled with some complex family dynamics over the years and these can be hard to navigate when you feel that ...
22 December 2019

Does he truly care about me or is he protecting himself?

Sometimes if we have been hurt we can go into self-preservation mode to protect ourselves from being hurt again. Often in relationships we can see this back and forth when ...
22 December 2019

I feel like my husband takes me for granted- what should I do?

Hi Anonymous, Although you say that your husband isn’t communicating with you, I would say that his actions are communicating something powerful to you. When someone values and respects you, ...
21 December 2019

Why was he intimate with me when he has a girlfriend and a child?

I'm sorry to hear that this has happened to you. It's always hard to loose a relationship with someone that we have got close to, particularly if we have also ...
21 December 2019

Am I right to feel betrayed and angry at my ex boyfriend's behaviour?

Hi Anonymous, Firstly, it’s not wrong to feel a certain way, so no need to feel guilty about feeling angry. Our feelings are our feelings, there’s no right or wrong. ...
20 December 2019

Are we compatible?

The only people that can decide if you are incompatible long term is the two of you. Esther Perel talks about how we are in multiple relationships with the same ...
20 December 2019

Should I trust him after he ghosted me?

Dr Rina Bajaj says:  Hi Anonymous, Firstly, I just wanted to say that his Ghosting says more about him than it does about you! It’s easy to build up a ...
19 December 2019

Why does my daughter make my blood boil?

It's inevitable that every parent-child relationships will have their testing times, and it's also really easy to get stuck in perspectives in relationships, whether it's with our partners, children, colleagues ...
19 December 2019

I still love my ex but he has a girlfriend- any advice?

Clarissa Bloom says: It can be hard to see a former partner move on with their life and meet someone new, however this is the inevitable difficulty around a break ...
18 December 2019

I'm ready to experience my first relationship but what am I doing wrong?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “You sounds like a great catch! Don’t be too hard on yourself. We all have feelings of insecurity, particularly in our teenage years, ...
18 December 2019

I'm stuck in a love triangle- what should I do?

Clarissa Bloom says: Whether they are truly willing to leave their wife or whether it is just talk is not the main factor. The reality is you need to end ...
17 December 2019

I'm in a long distance relationship- how do I cope when she goes back home?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “I think the key word in your letter is ‘recently.’ This is a brand new relationship - you are both in the first ...
17 December 2019

My friend has bulimia but I'm not meant to have found out- how do I help her?

Clarissa Bloom says: It can be difficult when told something you're not supposed to know, but the most important thing is your actions and how you handle that information. You ...
16 December 2019

How can I tell my boyfriend that I only see him as a friend?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “You are going to have to make that break. Not splitting up with him because you are worried that you will ‘break his ...
16 December 2019

My daughter's husband regularly visits his ex- should I tell her how I feel about it?

Clarissa Bloom says: Meeting ex partners can always be a difficult situation, especially if they share a friendship base or work together. This is something that most relationships should discuss ...
15 December 2019

Should I leave my partner before or after Christmas?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “What a sad situation! I really feel for you and there is no easy way out of this. First of all, you have ...
15 December 2019

Someone at work makes me feel like I'm not good at my job- how do I handle this?

Rachael Lloyd at eharmony says: The truth about confidence is that it’s an inside job. You can wing it all you like, you can dress the part, but unless you ...
14 December 2019

My partner doesn't want children- should I stay with him in case he changes his mind?

Rachael Lloyd at eharmony says: Many years have passed since I was 18, but I clearly remember feeling older than my years at that stage in my life. It was ...