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4 April 2020

My boyfriend has another girlfriend- how can he love us both?

Its not clear from your message whether he began seeing you both at the same time, however it sounds to me like he may have been with the other woman ...
3 April 2020

I have a clingy stepson, any advice?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “I appreciate that you are finding the situation upsetting but we are dealing with a two-year-old child here. Give the little fella a ...
2 April 2020

How do I please my wife?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “Blimey, you are coming to me with this now? I say now because this woman is your ‘wife.’ I like to think you ...
1 April 2020

Why did my friend sleep with my girlfriend when he knew how I felt about her?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “As you say, your girlfriend was single at the time and so was your friend. They had a drunken fling on Valentine’s Day ...
31 March 2020

Should I cheat on my partner?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “One of the biggest causes of relationship break-ups that I see is through mismatched sex drives - so you are by no means ...
30 March 2020

I think I'm in love with my close friend- what should I do?

You’ve known each other 6 months, so its still fairly early days in your friendship. If you feel in love with her now then you’ve had romantic feelings for her ...
27 March 2020

Should I serenade him with my music?

Hi Jay, If you talked about the singing thing before he said he didn’t want it to go any further, then perhaps this would not bring him back to you. It ...
26 March 2020

Should I contact her after 30 years to say sorry?

Hi Stu, Perhaps the reason you have not put this to bed is because she said she would think about what you had every day and maybe you are still doing ...
25 March 2020

Why do I no longer enjoy the company of my friends?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “It would be good to know a little more about your circumstances - particularly your age and why you feel you are growing ...
24 March 2020

Why am I so bothered about what my partner thinks of my nose?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “Your boyfriend has been unbelievably stupid and insensitive to tell you this. It’s no wonder you are furious and thinking about breaking up ...
21 March 2020

How can I help my partner to be less insecure?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “This is one of the toughest dliemmas I have ever had to unravel. All my instincts say ‘ditch him’ but you are adamant ...
20 March 2020

My best mate's boyfriend has cheated on her- should I tell her?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “You’re right: he’s got to go. But are you the one to make sure that he does go? I am not so sure. ...
19 March 2020

I'm in love with two people, who should I choose?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “You don’t actually say what advice you are looking for but you are understandably torn between these two guys and I imagine you ...
17 March 2020

My boyfriend is dishonest- should I stay with him?

Hi there, Forgive my candour, but this man isn’t really your boyfriend. He may call himself your boyfriend, he may state you’re in a relationship, but he is simply filing ...
16 March 2020

I feel like my boyfriend doesn't care about me- any advice?

Hi there, My advice regarding this situation is clear cut – if the relationship is damaging your confidence and making you miserable, you need to leave. People’s actions (or lack ...
15 March 2020

I'm worried I will mess up our friendship by telling her how I feel- any advice?

Hi there, I’m really pleased to hear you have a strong connection with someone special. The beauty of romances that evolve from friendships is that you have already become well ...
12 March 2020

My husband has been sending flirty messages to another woman- why won't he stop?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “I really feel for you and I can completely understand why this is ‘breaking your heart’. It would break anyone’s and it is ...
11 March 2020

How do I make peace with having a termination?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “Your feelings are entirley natural and it is perfectly understandable that you feel guilty about the decision that you took. I would recommend ...
10 March 2020

I feel my relationship has altered significantly with my partner- any advice?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “Grandchildren can be exhausting and it is perfectly understandable that you feel closer to your own grandchildren than to your husband’s given you ...
9 March 2020

Should I tell the guy I'm into that I had a friends with benefits relationship with his mate?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “This really does not seem like a big deal to me. You are obviously worried that this potentially exciting new relationship could be ...
5 March 2020

I think we have a chance, but the timing isn't right- should I ask her out again in the future?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “Be patient - if this was meant to be, I am sure this girl will come back to you when she is ready ...
4 March 2020

Why has my biological father asked to meet my brother and not me?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “Blimey, you are jumping to a lot of conclusions here - all of them negative and they all seem to revolve around your ...
3 March 2020

My wife doesn't make an effort anymore- any advice?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “What a mess! I really feel for you. What is worrying about this situation is that you have tried all the obvious things ...
2 March 2020

Is he just pretending to love me?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “Sorry but this man sounds like a total waste of space and I think you would be better off not contacting him and ...