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7 December 2019

Should I tell my boyfriend that I lied to him?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “What a hornet’s nest. I really do feel for you but you are going to have to put the whole relationship on the ...
6 December 2019

I feel like my dad is leaving me behind- how can I get over this?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “What a heart-breaking situation. You sound like a lovely woman and really don’t deserve this upheaval after all you have been through. To ...
5 December 2019

Should I be worried that my boyfriend has his ex staying over for a few days?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “I think you have to give your new partner the benefit of the doubt and raise no objection to his ex staying. You ...
4 December 2019

Did I do the right thing not helping my friend with her money problems?

Jo Howarth: You made that decision for a reason. You made that decision because you felt it was the right one for you. And that is okay. I'm sure your ...
4 December 2019

Why is my husband so angry all the time?

If the subject matter is something that either upsets you or causes an argument on a regular basis, then it is a clear problem for your relationship. While it is ...
3 December 2019

He hasn't messaged me in three weeks- shall I get in touch?

Jo Howarth says: Look after you. Which of those options makes you feel good about yourself and which makes you feel rubbish? If messaging him feels like the right thing ...
3 December 2019

Is it ok for my husband to give his daughters money without him asking me first?

Clarissa Bloom says: Is the money coming from a shared account or his private finances? What are the reasons they require the money? Do you have any upcoming costs or ...
2 December 2019

Why has our relationship changed since we've moved in together?

Jo Howarth says: Talk to him. Then talk to him some more. What is not working in your relationship? For both of you? Tell him exactly what you think is ...
2 December 2019

My mother in law has never liked me- but how can I make the best of the relationship?

The most important factor, and I can't understate this, is that your spouse is by your side and supporting you. Parents can struggle to let go of the idea of ...
1 December 2019

I want to leave my partner of five years but I'm worried he will get into debt- any advice?

Jo Howarth says: The only person you are responsible for is yourself. You cannot take responsibility for your partner or what may or may not happen to him if you ...
1 December 2019

Should I ask her if she wants to date other people until we can live together?

Clarissa Bloom says: While it can be a difficult conversation, it is something which needs to be discussed to know you are both in the same mindset, or if not, ...
30 November 2019

Why am I so jealous of my sister?

Noel McDermott says: In my experience all relationships can improve if there is willingness on both sides. You seem to be motivated to make changes and you seem to acknowledge your 'side of the ...
29 November 2019

Should I end my three year relationship?

Noel McDermott says: I’m not sure what age you are but I’m going to assume as you are going to University that you are quite young and this relationship started in school ...
28 November 2019

I'm pregnant to a man who already has a partner and kids- what should I do?

Noel McDermott says: This sounds like a situation in which you may be involved with a sex addict. The early parts of your relationship involve what I would call “love bombing”. This and his  hidden relationship ...
27 November 2019

Are we stopping each other from finding someone else by living together?

Noel McDermott says: This is a very familiar issue often seen in long term relationships. What I don’t get a sense of is that both of you have agreed on ...
26 November 2019

I've fallen for a guy who's married- should I stick around or walk away?

I’m glad you said it, and not me: you are second best in this relationship. Actually, you’re only 4th or 5th best, after the wife and kids. No matter how ...
25 November 2019

My boyfriend's family is getting in the way of our future- what can I do to change this?

Rachael Lloyd at eharmony says: I want to bear witness to the fact that you obviously love your boyfriend very much. You really want a future together and the opportunity to budget ...
24 November 2019

My friend ignored me for a month- where do I go from here?

I am sorry you’re in so much agony about this ghosting. They say that friends are with us for a lifetime, a season – or a reason. Your friendship has ...
23 November 2019

I really like this girl but we have both been with other people- what should I do?

Nick Davies says: You both have had indiscretions so there appears to be a lack of respect and trust on both parts, maybe you're both too young or not ready ...
22 November 2019

I have feelings for my colleague- should I leave my husband for him?

Nick Davies says: It sounds like your husband may have a past trauma around finance or debt from his childhood, ask him about this and also share how it makes ...
21 November 2019

My best friend has a crush on me but I like his brother- any advice?

Nick Davies says:It's important in decision making to look at things from everyone's perspective, put yourself in their shoes. How would you feel if you were your best friend and ...
20 November 2019

My friend keeps asking to borrow money- what should I do?

Nick Davies says: As a leading UK Psychotherapist and Hypnotherapist I often find most people who have a problem with gambling (or any other addiction), is because they are using ...
19 November 2019

Why is he shutting me out after our holiday together?

Carole Ann Rice sayd: He may be a perfectionist and is feeling that he is letting you down and is embarrassed because he isn’t perfect at the moment. You love ...
18 November 2019

How can I tell my bride-to-be-how I feel inside?

Carole Ann Rice says: A very sad situation because you have had a terrible family trauma. You are likely in trauma yourself and grief and I don’t think you have ...