Rachael Lloyd at eharmony says: Regarding your current relationship, this could be a case of a two-year itch. Perhaps you’ve reached a stage at which your relationship is leaning towards ...

Jo Howarth says: I would start by sitting her down and putting your boundaries in place. Tell her exactly what you consider to be acceptable behaviour and that if she ...

Jo Howarth says: What does your other half say about it? Does he think it's odd or is that just how they are as a family? My instinct is that ...

Jo Howarth says: Talk to him. Please don't feel awkward and ashamed for realising the feelings you have for him. My husband is my best friend and has been since ...

Dear Anonymous, This does sound like an unexpectedly complex situation and it’s no wonder that emotions may be running high. The thing that you and your husband have  in common ...

Jo Howarth says: Do you trust him? Do you believe him? At the end of the day that's all that matters. If you don't trust or believe him then why ...

Noel McDermott says: This is a tangled situation. First I would say that your partner cannot allow himself to be taken hostage by his wife in this way. No one ...

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “If I were in your shoes, I would get out of that destructive relationship as fast as I could. He sounds like a ...

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “What a hornet’s nest. I really do feel for you but you are going to have to put the whole relationship on the ...

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “What a heart-breaking situation. You sound like a lovely woman and really don’t deserve this upheaval after all you have been through. To ...

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “I think you have to give your new partner the benefit of the doubt and raise no objection to his ex staying. You ...

Jo Howarth: You made that decision for a reason. You made that decision because you felt it was the right one for you. And that is okay. I'm sure your ...

If the subject matter is something that either upsets you or causes an argument on a regular basis, then it is a clear problem for your relationship. While it is ...

Jo Howarth says: Look after you. Which of those options makes you feel good about yourself and which makes you feel rubbish? If messaging him feels like the right thing ...

Clarissa Bloom says: Is the money coming from a shared account or his private finances? What are the reasons they require the money? Do you have any upcoming costs or ...

Jo Howarth says: Talk to him. Then talk to him some more. What is not working in your relationship? For both of you? Tell him exactly what you think is ...

The most important factor, and I can't understate this, is that your spouse is by your side and supporting you. Parents can struggle to let go of the idea of ...

Jo Howarth says: The only person you are responsible for is yourself. You cannot take responsibility for your partner or what may or may not happen to him if you ...

Clarissa Bloom says: While it can be a difficult conversation, it is something which needs to be discussed to know you are both in the same mindset, or if not, ...

Noel McDermott says: In my experience all relationships can improve if there is willingness on both sides. You seem to be motivated to make changes and you seem to acknowledge your 'side of the ...

Noel McDermott says: I’m not sure what age you are but I’m going to assume as you are going to University that you are quite young and this relationship started in school ...

Noel McDermott says: This sounds like a situation in which you may be involved with a sex addict. The early parts of your relationship involve what I would call “love bombing”. This and his  hidden relationship ...

Noel McDermott says: This is a very familiar issue often seen in long term relationships. What I don’t get a sense of is that both of you have agreed on ...

I’m glad you said it, and not me: you are second best in this relationship. Actually, you’re only 4th or 5th best, after the wife and kids. No matter how ...