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19 August 2015

Why won't my partner organize a meeting with his children?

They might want nothing to do with you more so because you have never met rather than how you came into their lives. People can form opinions of others based ...
18 August 2015

How can I get over my crush whom I will never see again?

If you are never going to see your crush again then maybe circumstances will encourage you to find ways to get over him. Not seeing him should help, as regular ...

18 August 2015

Should I move to London with my boyfriend or stay at home in Leeds?

If you do find a job and home in London, it doesn't have to be final with your family. If you can agree with your family to see each other ...
18 August 2015

Will I ever find someone who's interested in me?

The most important thing is to not compare yourself to others. This sounds easier said than done when someone so close is getting married but if you constantly judge your ...
17 August 2015

How can I stop feeling guilty over making a fake profile?

We all need means of escape, it sounds like this was your way of coping; a distraction from your outside world. Perhaps there are other ways to 'get away from ...
17 August 2015

I'm attracted to my cousin's boyfriend- what should I do about it?

The acknowledgement of the problems in your marriage might be why you sought out someone else to talk to. It may be worth trying to address these before making a ...
16 August 2015

Should I leave my partner now he's given me an STD?

I presume that if you have been diagnosed with an STD that you know which one you have. If it's an STD that can only be transmitted through sex, like ...
14 August 2015

How can I reduce my feelings of anxiety?

It sounds like whatever has happened in your family has had a lasting impression on you. Although it's important to think of how this impacts on your relationship, you must ...

14 August 2015

Is it wrong to be in a relationship with an age gap?

There is nothing wrong with an age gap if you do truly love each other. Many people maintain successful relationships with a significant age gap, so there is no reason ...

14 August 2015

Should I ask my friend out before I go in the forces?

It sounds like you have found it so hard to get over each other because you broke up over your job rather than incompatibility. This type of split can be ...
13 August 2015

What can I do to help the relationship between my ex husband and my daughter?

It sounds like because this is the first time they have been in touch for 20 years that she was a little overwhelmed. It may take her a few days ...
13 August 2015

Should we tell our friend that her boyfriend cheated on her with a man?

This sounds like a very uncomfortable situation to be in right now. How does your male friend who is now in a relationship feel about you potentially telling your sister's ...
12 August 2015

Should I talk to my landlord about our troublesome roommate?

You mention that you have talked to him in the past, have you ever talked about approaching the landlord? Perhaps if he knew that you are willing to take such ...

12 August 2015

Why do I only make a move when I'm drunk?

It sounds like you use alcohol as a confidence booster and perhaps feel like you can only make a move when you have a bit of courage from drink to ...
12 August 2015

Why can't I sleep?

If your dog brings you so much comfort when you are on the couch, could you not take it up to bed with you and have it sleep on your ...

11 August 2015

Why does my friend lie about everything?

It has only been less than a week since you stopped talking to one another, so you may need to give yourself some time to digest what has happened. It's ...
11 August 2015

Why does my boyfriend want to turn me into someone I'm not?

Firstly there is no such thing as 'perfect'. If that is what he is looking for in a woman, he will always be disappointed- a perfect woman does not exist ...
10 August 2015

How can I better the relationship between my sister in law and my wife?

It sounds like everyone knows about this situation but no one will speak of it with your partner or your sister in law. Perhaps you could all sit down together ...
9 August 2015

How can I stop feeling so low?

It sounds like there are a lot of things that could making you feel this way. It could be something isolated, or it could be a combination of factors and ...
7 August 2015

I had unprotected sex last week, am I pregnant?

The symptoms you are displaying could be signs of pregnancy- yes. After conception the fertilised egg attaches itself to the wall of the uterus which can cause spotting and cramping. ...
5 August 2015

Is my boyfriend being too judgemental?

It sounds like you have got a lot on your plate right now and it is genuinely difficult to fit in your workouts. Although you have a goal to aim ...
4 August 2015

How can I help my depressed boyfriend?

It sounds like this was a very difficult thing for him to tell you, if he has never told anyone before. The first step is often on of the hardest, ...
4 August 2015

Was I right to give my boyfriend a second chance after he cheated?

It's understandable that you have had and probably will have dreams about him cheating as it's playing on your mind. If you don't talk to someone about your fears of ...
4 August 2015

How can I get my boyfriend to game less?

In every relationship, it's important that couples find things to do alone and together, however if this becomes unbalanced then someone ends up feeling unhappy. Perhaps he hasn't realised how ...