Karen asks :

Hey Lucy,

I've been going out with this guy for about a month. He’s been texting me all the time. Now he doesn't bother at all. I have to text him first and I don't get a lot of replies. Is he doing this as a game? Thanks Karen

 

Hi Karen,

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Agony Aunts on Female First

People make excuses when they don't want to do something and somehow find the time to do things that they do.

What I mean is- if he wanted to keep in regular contact- he would. If he is no longer bothering, then it could be because the honeymoon period is wearing off and he doesn't feel the need to put in much effort or it could be that your relationship has run its course.

If it's one sided so soon into your pairing, then this could be a good indication of how it will be if you stay together. If you want more regular contact what you're getting then perhaps you need to tell him when you next see him rather than over text or find someone who will do this without you having to ask him to do so.


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