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24 July 2020

Why do I still think about my ex every day?

Sex and relationship expert Jessican Leoni said: “First of all, well done for facing up for your past mistakes and realising that you need to make amends for your past ...
23 July 2020

Why is my daughter so defensive about her noisy behaviour?

Sex and relationship expert Jessican Leoni said: “You are facing the kind of annoying disruption that pretty much every parent with a lively 22-year-old daughter faces. Yes, she is being ...
22 July 2020

Why is sex always on his terms?

Jo Howarth says: Well, you're absolutely correct that the whole thing is on his terms. Control anyone? He is controlling what happens between the two of you and unless you ...
21 July 2020

Do I tell my new boss about my health and upcoming doctors appointments?

Noel McDermott says: “You bring up some interesting issues around appropriate framing, transference and support. You are going through a very frightening time and I would guess feeling quite young, ...
20 July 2020

My partner has been sexting other women, will he ever realise what he has with me?

The Good Enough Coach Natalie Trice says: I am so sorry that you are having to deal with this situation and it isn't a surprise that you are feeling hurt and ...
19 July 2020

My step-father has terminal lung cancer- why don't I feel more emotional?

“What a challenging childhood you had and I empathise with how difficult it must have been as a child to feel unwanted. I also see you tried to have a ...
18 July 2020

My parents hate my partner- any advice?

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationship expert, said: “It would be good to have a few more details and more of an explanation about why your parents have such a low ...
17 July 2020

Do you think I'm pregnant?

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationship expert, said: “I really don’t know for sure and the only way to properly resolve this issue is to take a pregnacy test. You can ...
16 July 2020

My two best friends have fallen out, how do I deal with this?

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationship expert, said: “This is a tricky one because you have given me so few details and I don’t know what has caused your friends to ...
15 July 2020

Does she regard me in the same way I do her?

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationship expert, said: “I don’t see what you have got to lose by confessing your feelings for your friend. You have been struggling with this issue ...
13 July 2020

Does he want to move in with me or not?

Thank you for your question and I can absolutely see why this is causing you anxiety and worry. I would start by saying, please don't let the situation start to ...
12 July 2020

Why doesn't my boyfriend satisfy me in bed?

The first thing to do is stop any form of questioning about right or wrong, good or bad, or any sense of blame of yourself or anyone else. I would ...
11 July 2020

I still miss my friend after ten years- any advice?

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationship expert, said: “I would get in touch. What have you got to lose? It sounds like you and your friend had an amazing friendship. You ...
10 July 2020

Am I a cheapskate?

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationship expert, said: “What a sad situation and it does sound like you have been very unfairly treated. You shouldn’t feel bad about not carrying cash ...
9 July 2020

Why am I still thinking about my ex a year and a half later?

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationship expert, said: “Wow - what a wonderfully vivid letter - you sound like a great catch and such a fun, exciting, young woman with a ...
16 April 2020

Should I move on and forget about him?

Hi there, Do yourself a massive favour. Take mixed signals as a no. We females have this tendency to over analyse hot and cold romantic behaviour. We make excuses for ...
15 April 2020

I have a partner but can't stop thinking about an old flame- any advice?

Hi there, I wonder if you’ve always carried a candle for your ex, or whether the obsession started recently. If it’s recent, it could point to a bout of boredom ...
14 April 2020

How do I deal with fake friends?

Hi there, I’d really like you to define a ‘fake friend’ for me. But I will hazard a guess that it means people who have captivating, attractive traits yet tend ...
13 April 2020

How can I move on from him without being judged?

Hi there, I’m sorry this has been so painful for you and that you have not yet got full closure about this affair. However, I have to wonder what led ...
12 April 2020

My boyfriend has no time for me- any advice?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “This is a tricky one. I can see that you love your boyfriend very much and are desperate for him to be a ...
11 April 2020

I want my ex back- any advice?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “You need to start by looking at the reasons why you split up in the first place. You were together for two years ...
9 April 2020

I'm not happy in my relationship anymore but we're in lockdown- what should I do?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “It sounds to me like your issues with your partner long pre-date the lockdown and the inevitable tensions this will cause for any ...
7 April 2020

I feel more like a housemate than a wife, what should I do?

“I’m not sure I understand if you are motivated for change or not as this is required .. motivation is central in change in any relationship. Clearly you’ve tried speaking ...
6 April 2020

He told me things are complicated with his ex- am I being naive?

It seems to me pretty clear that you want this man to commit to you, in terms of being in an exclusive relationship.  However, he has made it quite clear he ...