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20 August 2020

Why is my husband so stingy?

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationship expert, said: “You are right to be concerned: your husband sounds like a nightmare. Let’s start with the issue of money. I think tight-fistedness is ...
19 August 2020

Why is my husband flirting with other women?

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationship expert, said: “I am sorry if I sound overly pessimistic but I do think you have a real problem here with your husband. You say ...
18 August 2020

I get anxious whenever my boyfriend does anything without me- any advice?

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationship expert, said: “The first thing you need to address is whether your anxiety pre-dates your relationship with your boyfriend. I suspect that it does and ...
17 August 2020

My husband has let himself go- any advice?

The Good Enough Coach Natalie Trice says: I'm sorry to hear you are so unhappy and I think many people will identify with some of the issues you are experiencing.  Navigating ...
16 August 2020

Will my friend think I'm being disloyal when she finds out what I've done?

The Good Enough Coach Natalie Trice says: This is a very tricky situation and one that comes up a lot and while we can say there is a hard rule that "exes ...
15 August 2020

Should I continue to see him or forget about him?

Mig Bennett says: I feel for you. Whether you’re male or female you’ve been brave enough to tell this guy that you were interested in him, liked him enough to ...
14 August 2020

Why did my friend use my news as gossip?

Noel McDermott says: “One of the primary rules of life is that we cannot control others, imagining we can only leads to resentment. Maybe the person you are annoyed at ...
13 August 2020

My girlfriend has gained weight and I no longer find her attractive- any advice?

Sex and relationship expert Jessican Leoni said: “You say that you are at a ‘crossroads’ in your relationship over this issue and I think you are. Sex is the glue ...
12 August 2020

Am I being selfish for wanting to sell our home?

Sex and relationship expert Jessican Leoni said: “You say at the start of the letter that ‘we are selling our home to move to a bigger one’ - so it ...
11 August 2020

Am I failing my children?

Sex and relationship expert Jessican Leoni said: “You are being way too hard on yourself, which is understandable given your circumstances because you have an awful lot on your plate. ...
10 August 2020

Should I leave my career to make my partner happy?

Sex and relationship expert Jessican Leoni said: “You are facing a really tough dilemma and ultimately your final decision is going to be determined by your feelings for your boyfriend. ...
9 August 2020

Have I gone off my partner completely or is it normal to feel this way after pregnancy?

Let’s start with your questions. Yes. The demise of a couple’s sexual relationship often starts with the first child’s arrival. Parenthood is uncharted territory; new parents need security and stability ...

8 August 2020

Is it a good idea to have a casual relationship with my friend?

Martina Mercer says: Hi there, having a friend with benefits can be a very liberating experience, as long as, as you have done, both parties understand the boundaries and agree ...
6 August 2020

How can I stop my heart from being broken again?

Noel McDermott says: “The first thing I would say is trust yourself. You clearly feel something is wrong and needs to be discussed fully. You are correct, here’s a little ...
5 August 2020

How can I heal after what I found on my boyfriend's phone?

Nadia Deen says: Dear Reader, Finding out your partner has betrayed you by asking strangers for nudes, is upsetting and heartbreaking.  It breaks your trust in that person and encourages ...
4 August 2020

I've been hurt in the past, how can I learn to trust someone again?

Sex and relationship expert Jessican Leoni said: “You have provided very few details so it is difficult for me to be too firm in my judgements. My gut instinct is ...
3 August 2020

How can I get my partner's ex to be civil to me?

Sex and relationship expert Jessican Leoni said: “I really feel for you because you sound like you are getting a raw deal from your partner’s ex. She is behaving selfishly ...
2 August 2020

My boyfriend doesn't like the way I dress- any advice?

Sex and relationship expert Jessican Leoni said: “To answer your question bluntly: get the hell out. You are 25 and really shouldn’t be wasting any more time on a man ...
1 August 2020

How do I break away from the most intense friendship I've ever experienced?

Sex and relationship expert Jessican Leoni said: “I am loathe to disagree with the advice from your mother, who sounds like a lovely woman and is right in many ways ...
30 July 2020

Why is my partner spending so much time at his mother's house?

Kate Nicolle says: This sounds like a difficult time for you all, your partner is trying to support his mother at a time when she is clearly distressed and relying ...
29 July 2020

Should I forget about the married woman I have met online?

Hi Mike, If you love her then you could wait, however 5 years is a long time to wait for someone and what if she changes her mind? If she is ...
28 July 2020

I want another child but my husband doesn't- any advice?

Martina Mercer says: Hi there, you don’t mention what ages your children are? If they still wake during the night and demand a lot of attention (under 5) then it ...
26 July 2020

I don't agree with my friend texting another man behind her fiance's back- any advice?

Sex and relationship expert Jessican Leoni said: “Your friend does sound like a bit of a handful. Getting married is a stressful business and lots of people who have doubts ...
25 July 2020

Why am I jealous of my partner's friendship with our roommate?

Sex and relationship expert Jessican Leoni said: “I think you need to have an honest conversation with your partner and find out what he really thinks about this girl. Is ...