Hi Hazza, If you are intent on reducing the amount of time you spend masturbating then I would suggest that you take away all temptations. Ban yourself from the sites you ...

Hi Marie, It sounds like it might be something psychological that is stopping him from reaching orgasm. Maybe you could talk to him about getting pregnant- is it what he really ...

Hi I, Perhaps she finally has enough trust in the relationship to be able to take your sex life to another level. Anal sex takes a lot of trust and sometimes ...

Hi Mark, It can be uncomfortable talking to your parents about anything of a sexual nature, especially when it’s about their particular preferences. It might be that your mum already knows ...

Hi Melanie, All vaginas look different- there is nowhere that says they have to be a certain size or shape. Some women have larger labia than others. If you find the ...

Hi Wendy, Infidelity is one of the hardest things that a married couple potentially has to face and forgiveness and trust might be difficult to comprehend when you have only just ...

Hi Laura, Although being ‘caring, considerate and loyal’ are wonderful attributes in a man, in any relationship there still needs to be some element of physical attraction, otherwise you are simply ...

Hi Jayne, Women often automatically think that when men don’t want to have sex with them that it's down to their attractiveness, when actually it could be a good number of ...

Hi Robert, It sounds like this is the one thing that is getting in the way of your relationship when everything else is going so well. Remember that most women can’t orgasm ...

Hi Holly, This sounds very frustrating for not only you but your partner too, when the medication might be helping you in some ways and not others. Why not go back to ...

Hi Roisin, It sounds like you are craving love and attention you lacked with your previous partner but finding it in the wrong places. Those who you go out with may get ...

Hi Quelli,   As with anal sex in any position, a lot of lube is a good idea. Unlike the vagina, the anus does not produce its own natural lubricant when its ...

Hi Jasi,   Most women don’t experience orgasm with their partners inside them. It doesn’t mean that there is a problem with either of you. It’s simply down to the way women ...

Hi Angela,   You have come to terms and found the understanding when for he watches porn.  A lot of women could not find it in themselves to accept this, so the ...

Hi Lola, If he hasn’t made the effort to call why not get in touch with him? If you don’t and he leaves it another few days you will be left ...

Hi Esther, thanks for getting in touch! If you didn’t have penetrative sex then you are still classed as a virgin by most heterosexuals. Some cultures and people of different sexual ...

Hi Sarah, thanks for getting in touch! Masturbation is a natural process so no, it’s not bad. Some people feel guilty because of their family and upbringing where sex is not ...

Hi Tamela, thanks for getting in touch. If you haven’t done this at all already then don’t go all in with a barrage of dirty talk, I would suggest doing it ...

Hi Bill, thanks for getting in touch.   Women respond well to romance, which often will follow on to sex when they feel sufficiently pursued. Why not take her out for a ...

Some of the points you can make to him are: Reinforce the fact that anal sex is much tighter around his penis, as the anal sphincters are more taught than that ...

You can do several things here. The first, is a razor, but make sure that you are careful when using this, especially around the sensitive areas like your clitoris. One ...

Technically speaking the anus is not built for penetration and with anal sex, there can be a lot of complications, especially if you have trouble in this area to begin ...

Other ways to help in this area are to try and reduce your anxiety. There is huge pressure to perform for men and that is why they come quickly. Try ...

Porn is the easier option, it may have nothing to do with not wanting to have sex with you, it just means less effort on his part, as less energy ...