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21 March 2020

How can I help my partner to be less insecure?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “This is one of the toughest dliemmas I have ever had to unravel. All my instincts say ‘ditch him’ but you are adamant ...
20 March 2020

My best mate's boyfriend has cheated on her- should I tell her?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “You’re right: he’s got to go. But are you the one to make sure that he does go? I am not so sure. ...
19 March 2020

I'm in love with two people, who should I choose?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “You don’t actually say what advice you are looking for but you are understandably torn between these two guys and I imagine you ...
17 March 2020

My boyfriend is dishonest- should I stay with him?

Hi there, Forgive my candour, but this man isn’t really your boyfriend. He may call himself your boyfriend, he may state you’re in a relationship, but he is simply filing ...
16 March 2020

I feel like my boyfriend doesn't care about me- any advice?

Hi there, My advice regarding this situation is clear cut – if the relationship is damaging your confidence and making you miserable, you need to leave. People’s actions (or lack ...
15 March 2020

I'm worried I will mess up our friendship by telling her how I feel- any advice?

Hi there, I’m really pleased to hear you have a strong connection with someone special. The beauty of romances that evolve from friendships is that you have already become well ...
12 March 2020

My husband has been sending flirty messages to another woman- why won't he stop?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “I really feel for you and I can completely understand why this is ‘breaking your heart’. It would break anyone’s and it is ...
11 March 2020

How do I make peace with having a termination?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “Your feelings are entirley natural and it is perfectly understandable that you feel guilty about the decision that you took. I would recommend ...
10 March 2020

I feel my relationship has altered significantly with my partner- any advice?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “Grandchildren can be exhausting and it is perfectly understandable that you feel closer to your own grandchildren than to your husband’s given you ...
9 March 2020

Should I tell the guy I'm into that I had a friends with benefits relationship with his mate?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “This really does not seem like a big deal to me. You are obviously worried that this potentially exciting new relationship could be ...
5 March 2020

I think we have a chance, but the timing isn't right- should I ask her out again in the future?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “Be patient - if this was meant to be, I am sure this girl will come back to you when she is ready ...
4 March 2020

Why has my biological father asked to meet my brother and not me?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “Blimey, you are jumping to a lot of conclusions here - all of them negative and they all seem to revolve around your ...
3 March 2020

My wife doesn't make an effort anymore- any advice?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “What a mess! I really feel for you. What is worrying about this situation is that you have tried all the obvious things ...
2 March 2020

Is he just pretending to love me?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “Sorry but this man sounds like a total waste of space and I think you would be better off not contacting him and ...
28 February 2020

Should I divorce my wife or stay and hope that her midlife crisis passes?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “I really feel for you. You are a good man and I am full of admiration for the way you want to do ...
27 February 2020

Why does my partner grind his teeth when he touches me?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni: “I think there is a fairly simple solution to this problem. Can you just ask him if he is into you and enjoys sex ...
26 February 2020

My wife-to-be is not a virgin- how can I cope with this information?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni: “Wow - this is a tough one. Let’s start with you. You are about to embark on the most important relationship of your life ...
25 February 2020

My drive for intimacy has plummeted- any advice?

Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “Sexual mismatches are one of the biggest reasons for relationship break-ups, so you are right to be worried about this situation. What you ...
24 February 2020

I'm scared of getting too attached as he doesn't want anything serious- any advice?

Rachael Lloyd from eHarmony says:  Hi there, Welcome to an all too familiar place - the ‘fake relationships zone’. I’m sorry, I know that sounds harsh, but sometimes it pays ...
23 February 2020

I'm in love with someone else but my husband needs my full time care- what should I do?

Rachael Lloyd from eHarmony says:  Hi there, Have to say, this is a really tough question. I completely understand why you feel caught between the devil and the deep blue ...
22 February 2020

He told me to move on- any advice?

Rachael Lloyd from eHarmony says:  Hi there, Your experience sounds very challenging. You spent five months in a relationship with someone, and even though it was a long-distance involvement, I’m ...
21 February 2020

Should I pursue a relationship with someone who is emotionally unavailable?

Rachael Lloyd at eharmony says: Hi there, This sounds like a very challenging situation and I’m sorry you’re suffering. I think in this instance, it might be an idea to separate ...
20 February 2020

I’m really scared he doesn’t feel the same- what should I do?

Jo Howarth says: The only way to find out if he feels the same is to ask him. You are second guessing a lot of what is going on instead of ...
19 February 2020

My sister never calls me- should I just leave her alone?

Jo Howarth says: You cannot control anyone else’s behaviour. It’s as simple as that. There could be a million and one reasons why your sister doesn’t call you, not all ...