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9 October 2020

The man I was having an affair with has died and I want to say my goodbyes- any advice?

Relationship expert Jessican Leoni said: “First of all, my deepest sympathies. I am not here to make moral judgments. You fell in love with a man while married to someone ...
8 October 2020

Should I be worried about what I found in my boyfriend's memory box?

Relationship expert Jessican Leoni said: “I think this is only an issue if he is getting this box out at regular intervals and showing obvious signs that he is still ...
2 October 2020

How can I broach this sensitive subject with my friend?

Mig Bennett says: The whole ‘round buying’ culture is a social acceptance norm where being in a round marks you as someone who is accepted – group membership matters. It ...
30 September 2020

How do I stop attracting the wrong kind of guy?

Relationship expert Jessican Leoni said: “Don’t be too hard on yourself - you are only 20 and have a lot of life to live and a lot to learn about ...
29 September 2020

Is he leaving the door open for a future relationship?

Relationship expert Jessican Leoni said: “I am sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but I don’t think this guy sees you as girlfriend material and I think he ...
28 September 2020

Is there ever such a thing as the right person at the wrong time?

Relationship expert Jessican Leoni said: “I really feel for you. It is so tough finding the right partner and a little soul destroying  when someone breaks things off just as ...
22 September 2020

My boyfriend says he can't be bothered with me- any advice?

Sami Wunder, dating & relationship coach says: The challenge here is two things -  If you´re working that long and that hard my darling, you probably have little time and ...
19 September 2020

How can I tell my wife I don't want her son to come and stay with us again?

Noel McDermott says: It’s difficult to know from what you say how much you and your wife have discussed this. I’m not sure what her thinking is for having him ...
18 September 2020

Why does my boyfriend prefer to dress up than spend time with me?

Dominique says: Hi there, Reading your question it sounds to me like you have more than one concern in your relationship that are potentially blending into each other. Have you ...
15 September 2020

My best friend has lost the plot- any advice?

Rachael Lloyd from eHarmony says: Hi there, Firstly, let me say you sound like a lovely friend. You are genuinely worried about your friend when you could simply be judgemental and ...
14 September 2020

How much time can I reasonably give to this relationship that's going nowhere?

Relationship expert Jessican Leoni said: “You are right to be concerned. I see very little prospect of this man helping you to achieve your dreams of marriage and motherhood. He ...
13 September 2020

Our relationship is very bog standard- any advice?

Rlationship expert Jessican Leoni said: “Your boyfriend sounds like he is a very selfish lover. It makes me wonder if he is selfish in other aspects of his life. I ...
12 September 2020

Is it normal to argue with your partner all the time?

Sex and relationship expert Jessican Leoni said: “I really feel for you and worry for the future of your relationship. You have made huge sacrifices for your partner - shifting ...
11 September 2020

Should I tell my partner about the thoughts I've been having?

Sex and relationship expert Jessican Leoni said: “I would love to know how old you are because this would help me to assess your situation far better. I suspect that ...
10 September 2020

How can I get over my ex husband of eight years?

Mig Bennett says: “It seems that a lot in your life isn’t bringing you happiness and connection. You mention where you live and your lack of friends. Sometimes when our ...
8 September 2020

Is this relationship really as bad as it sounds?

Noel McDermott says: “I don’t think you are in love, I think you are suffering from chronically low self esteem. The idea you would risk everything you have built for ...
6 September 2020

Is it normal to doubt if I should be with my partner or not?

Dear Reader, You’re right, everyone goes through periods in their relationships where they aren’t always sure if the dynamic or the person they’re with is right for them. Not only ...
5 September 2020

Why is my partner keeping me a secret from his friends?

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationship expert, said: “You are right to be worried and his obsession  (and I don’t think that is too strong a word) with compartmentalising his life ...
4 September 2020

My mother sees things that aren't there- any advice?

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationship expert, said: “You mum is 90 so you have every reason to be worried about her for all manner of reasons - not least the ...
3 September 2020

Is my boyfriend using Covid as an excuse to avoid me?

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationship expert, said: “You are not being selfish at all and I have every sympathy with your predicament. Covid is the most awful nightmare for so ...
2 September 2020

My girlfriend is mad that I feel asleep during...any advice?

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationship expert, said: “Tell her to calm down because she is being way too sensitive. Of course, I can see why she was offended but I ...
1 September 2020

I hate myself for what I did with my best friend- any advice?

Being intimate with a friend is one of the things in life that is difficult to undo once done. I wonder if you’re hating that fact rather than yourself? I ...
22 August 2020

My husband died a year ago, but I've met a man I want to kiss- any advice?

Because you don’t give details of your relationship or how your husband’s death affected you, I’m going to assume his loss is something you have grieved and are probably still ...
21 August 2020

My partner doesn't want children or marriage- what should I do?

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationship expert, said: “I think you need to be straight with this guy and put your cards on the table and tell him exactly what you ...