When dating it’s often possible to come across like you’re trying a little too hard, leaving you looking desperate rather than desirable but we’ve got a few tips to keep you on top of your game when dating!
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Punch Below Your Weight
We all try to date someone who is better looking than ourselves but try dating someone who is slightly below your usual standards.
By doing this you’re taking the pressure to impress off the cards and it leaves you to be completely natural and at ease with your date. You never know, you might actually have the best time of your life!
Make Him Fight For It
Your attention is precious so make him want it rather than just giving it to him automatically. Both men and women have it hardwired into them that if something is too easy to get it’s not worth having!
So if you see a guy you like with his friends then approach them and great his friends first, then turn to him and give him a hello smile. Don’t ignore him completely as this will give off the complete wrong impression.
Keep Him Wanting More
This works with pretty much everything. Don’t stay with him till the early hours of the morning, leave the date early so that he will keep thinking of you once you’re gone and so he mind can wander about what may have happened if you’d have stayed.
Don’t dress to over the top, leave some things to the imagination so that he’ll have a reason to set up another date. Never sleep with him on the first date, if anything looks desperate then it’s that!
Be Your Own Woman
Have your own opinions, don’t sit and giggle at his every joke or agree with everything that comes out of his mouth. Not only does this come across as you having no ability to think for yourself but it will stump conversation.
Don’t cancel your previous plans just to see him. If you’ve already got something planned with friends or family then put seeing him on hold until you both have room in your schedules, it’ll make it all the better when you finally do get together.
Finally…
Don’t drop any conversation killers whilst dating. Anything from ex’s to marriage and how many children you want to have are going to put a full stop in a potential relationship so leave them off the cards until things become serious!
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