Becky asks :
My best friend and her boyfriend have been dating for 1 year. They are both expecting a baby and he claims he loves her but he keeps coming on to me. I've told him I'm not interested but if he's going to try and cheat with the best friend surely he will cheat with someone else and it's not fair for a child to be in that situation. Do I tell her?
Yin replies
If you have neither encouraged this nor done anything with him then yes, I would say tell her. You have already tried to nip this in the bud and it has not worked, so tell her that you have made the effort and that it is still happening, that is all coming from him. She is about to have a child this his guy, what if he cheats on her with someone else? He is clearly has no problem with the idea of cheating on your best friend.
Yang replies
If she finds out later down the line that you knew about this other side to him she will be, not only heartbroken romantically but also by your dishonesty. If they do break up she needs you for support. She may resist and think that you are making it up because you are jealous of her life, or that you want some attention, so expect a backlash, but if you are good friends and have been through lot, she will know that you wouldn’t lie to her about this.
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