Cara asks :
iv been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 months n for a while now hes bein making me feel bad. he guilt trips me about not bein able to quit smokin (i have successfully now but he still makes me feel guilty) ive been crying alot and its all cause of him he'll fight about anything and hes got such a short fuse and he gets me mad and upset and other times he'll just insult me and make me feel worthless ive just been so stressed and i dont know if anythings going to change and how long i can keep this up i love him to pieces but now im just not sure how much i can take should i break up with him?Yin replies
No one deserves to be treated the way that your boyfriend is treating you, and it appears that you are doing nothing wrong either. Have you tried talking to him and telling him how upset that he is making you feel? He may not realise that he is hurting you as much as he is, especially if you are not letting him know. You shouldn't be in this situation, and it is clear to me that your boyfriend is not making you happy. Talk to him and see if there's anything bothering him. If there's no improvement, ditch him.Yang replies
Why are you still with this man? He is treating you, apologies for being blunt, like sh*t, and you are standing for it. Stand up for what you believe in and demand respect from him. Don't let him dominate your relationship, it should be an equal partnership between the two of you. Get out while you can, before he becomes even more derogatory and controlling, because who knows what lengths he might go to to keep you secluded and under his influence.Need Help?
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