isla8520 asks :

me nd my boyfried had an intimate scene today, its the first time he inserted his finger into my vagina, nd later i realized that it was bleeding and it still hurts a lot, does this mean i hav lost my virginity by any chance?

Yin replies

If he has been a little too rough, then he may have caught the inside of your vagina with his fingernail, so douche and make sure that if there was any bacteria under his nails that you have cleaned it out to stop the spread of infection.

Yang replies

The breaking or tearing of the hymen can happen during sports or through inserting tampon or through masturbation, so yes he may have torn your hymen by inserting his finger inside you. Make sure you keep the area clean and monitor the bleeding, if it stops and heals within a few days then this is likely what has happened, but I the bleeding persists then go and see your doctor.


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