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23 February 2017

Why Is My Partner Texting Sex Workers?

Hi Anonymous, Although you say that the relationship seems perfect, there is usually some doubt in the partnership. This will cause us to act suspiciously. I’m assuming this is not ...
22 February 2017

How Can I Stop My Partner Moving Out?

Hi Buttercup, It does sound like the arrangement is taking its toll on your relationship. This begs the question, if the situation is unlikely to alter any time soon- is ...
13 February 2017

Why Does My Husband Prefer To Play On His Computer Than Spend Time With Me?

Yin / Tyler Men and women think differently about situations such as this. Men think about providing for the home, so by working, he feels he has filled his quota ...
13 February 2017

My Boyfriend Has Naked Pictures Of His Ex On His Computer, Am I Allowed To Be Upset?

Hi Selina, It must have been alarming to find naked pictures of a woman on your partner's computer but it sounds like you felt an extra jolt when you realised ...
6 February 2017

How Can I Get Past The Guilt Of My Break-Up?

Hi Catalina,  Firstly I would ask you the reasons why you want him back when you admit you were miserable with him, and all he did was irritate you? I suspect ...
6 February 2017

Why has he asked for space while I'm sick?

Hi Margaret, Your partner should be with you in sickness and in health, whether you have exchanged vows or not. It is one of the unwritten rules of relationships; he should ...
24 January 2017

Why don't I believe my boyfriend when he compliments me?

Hi Georgia, If you are still haunted by the comments from pervious boyfriends when they said things to your face and something different behind your back, this will inevitably impact ...
20 January 2017

I've got a talent for making music- what should I do about it?

Hi Damonte, I would suggest putting some of your work on You Tube. A lot of artists have been discovered this way- take Justin Bieber for example and look how successful ...
20 January 2017

Should I serenade him with my music?

Hi Jay, If you talked about the singing thing before he said he didn’t want it to go any further, then perhaps this would not bring him back to you. It ...
12 January 2017

How can I stop people laughing at my ginger hair?

You are absolutely right- your hair colour should not matter at all. Only 1-2% of people around the world have red hair which makes you distinctive and perhaps different from ...
9 January 2017

Will my partner always be selfish?

Hi Deb, Money is the catalyst for fights in many a relationship, especially when it is about a lot of money. Put the deposit aside- the contribution to your bills ...
15 December 2016

Why do I feel numb at Christmas?

Hi Leonie, Christmas means different things to different people. Some like to take things to the excess and drink, eat and spend lots just because they can, others see it ...
15 December 2016

Should I leave my partner before or after Christmas?

Hi Matthew, Rather than making plans to leave- could some relationship counselling help you to sort this new phase of your relationship out? If you could be happier if the ...
15 December 2016

Who should I spend Christmas with?

Hi Kelsey, Christmas is always a difficult time to keep everyone happy all the time and all you can do is work with what you have.  If your partner is already working ...
9 December 2016

I kissed my friend's boyfriend, should I tell my partner?

Hi Gabby, It sounds like it hasn't affected your friend's relationship, so we could assume that he hasn't told her. It doesn't seem to have affected your prospects of finding ...

7 December 2016

Is my marriage in trouble?

Hi Marcus, Thank you for getting in touch. It sounds like you have grown apart to such an extent that you feel you can't ask him the questions you are ...
6 December 2016

My new job means working with my ex-friend- what should I do?

Hi Louisa, You have already admitted that this is your 'dream job'- so it might be wise to focus on making a good impression with everyone else, learning new skills ...
16 November 2016

My grandmother bought me a gift I can’t use- should I tell her?

Hi Freya, She likely hasn't even realised that you don't have your ears pierced. You could tell her if she still has the receipt and ask if you could exchange ...

2 November 2016

Is my vagina too wide?

Hi Stephanie, Chances are, if you're not experiencing any discomfort or disruption to sexual function- your vagina is within the normal range. It's possible that if your previous partners were ...
24 October 2016

Why does my boyfriend eat all my food?

Hi Anonymous, This sounds frustrating when it’s likely that you are the one paying or the food if he has no income right now. If you haven’t talked to him about this ...
24 October 2016

Why does my ex feed my daughter such unhealthy food?

Could you take her for a general health check at the pharmacy or the doctors and ask them to talk to her about the repercussions of her weight gain? She ...
5 October 2016

Why did he start dating me while he was engaged?

Hi Sharon, It is understandable that you feel all of these things. The positive in this situation is that you now know the real him and were able to walk ...
5 October 2016

Should I leave my partner because he makes no effort?

Hi Kay, Relationships are judged by what we do more than what we say- the proof is in a person's actions. If he promises something and doesn't deliver on that ...
5 October 2016

My mum has asked me for a large sum of money- should I give it to her?

Hi Kirsty, This is an unusual situation because it's generally the other way around. What I would say is that if she can't afford the property she's in, then perhaps ...
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