Louise asks :
My boyfriend and I tend to have quite a lot of sex, and resently, we were having intercorse, and I got to a stage where I felt asif i was about to unrinate so i stopped him, in the fear i would embarress myself. I've read on the internet that some women feel as if they have wet the bed when they have ejaculated, is this how it feels before female ejactulation ? please help.
My best advice would be to pee before you have sex and after as this can reduce the likelihood of UTIs (urinary tract infections), and this should lessen the feeling of the need to go.
Peeing before sex
Men are lucky as when they are about to orgasm the opening to their bladder closes and prevents any urine coming out. For women this is very different, and they can pee while they are reaching orgasm. This is due to the fact that your bladder is very close to your clitoris and vagina and any penetration puts pressure on the bladder making you want to pee. If you have been to the toilet before you have sex, then the feelings you are getting, just go with as they are most likely to end well! If his doesn't work, I suggest looking up Kegel exercises, which will strengthen the muslces in the vagina wall.
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