Everlyn asks :

Hi Lucy! 

Got a bit of guy trouble! Over this last week I've been speaking to a guy who I've known for ages, we've been sending each other flirty texts and we decided to meet up. 

We went back to his place and made love. Afterwards, we talked and when I asked if I’d ever see him again he responded with a definite ‘yes’ and asked what are I was doing on the following days. He drove me back home and asked me to text him. I did, but since then, I've always been first to text. Although he texts me back, he doesn't send any flirty texts, even though he still talks about us meeting up. He doesn't text anywhere near as much as he did before we met. I'm just really confused and getting mixed signals, and don't really know who else to turn to. Is he interested in me or not?

 

Hi Everlyn,

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Agony Aunts on Female First

It might help you to try and get him to commit to a time, location and date rather than just a casual promise of meeting up. That way you will know if he is serious about seeing you again.

If he is still non-committal when you suggest something more concrete- it could be that he is not that interested.

The texts shouldn't be one sided, so perhaps you could stop being the one to initiate the conversation. If he doesn't text you first or at all then this will also be a good indicator of how much he wants to communicate with you.

People say many things in the early stages of romance, however the proof is in their actions. If they do what they say they are going to do then this can be a positive sign. However, if they simply talk about something but never follow through with it- chances are they don't mean what they say.


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