Cal asks :

I was with my girlfriend till about four months ago she finished with me she has lupus which can make her very sick so thought it was better that we just stayed friends instead, I reluctantly agreed in the hope we might get back. I still love her and was thinking of writing her a letter telling her how I feel would this help or am I wasting my time

Yin replies

If the only reason that she broke up with you is because she is ill and you both still love each other then it’s worth another shot. Letters are a way to get everything down and in a coherent manner unlike speaking to the ones you love in an emotional moment, where things can get missed or muddled up.

 

Yang replies

If you don’t you will never know if she feels the same way. If she doesn’t you can move on but at least you will have given it one last chance before you can move on. 


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