The latest sex trend that is becoming increasingly popular is pegging. You may not have heard of this before because it’s not exactly mainstream and no, it’s not a sexy way of pegging the washing out. In short, pegging is the term used to refer to a woman anally penetrating a man, usually with a strap on or other kind of dildo. Sex and relationships expert Tami Rose knows how important it is to try new things in the bedroom. Here are the top reasons you should try pegging and the things you should consider before trying it.

Fancy trying something new for the weekend?

Fancy trying something new for the weekend?

Play with power

A lot of people have sexual hang-ups about gendered role reversal, mostly because Fifty Shades has ingrained in them that women are submissive. However, if your man is usually the dominant partner this definitely switches things up. Taking control can be very sexy and pleasurable to both partners.

Get comfortable

The only way to a man’s G-spot is through the back door, so pegging can help your man achieve some eyebrow-raising orgasms. However, a lot of men feel uncomfortable with anal play as it doesn’t sit right with them. On the other hand, a lot of men are intrigued by anal penetration, but it’s important to communicate and set boundaries to make sure you’re both comfortable.

Slowly does it

If this is your first time trying anything like this, there is going to be a lot of new sensations that are alien to you both. Make sure you’re relaxed and take things very slowly. It’s best to build up to wherever you’re comfortable with through foreplay and experimenting. The best rule of ‘thumb’ is to test the waters with a finger rather than jumping straight in; this will get him used to the sensation before progressing further.

Choose your equipment

As a woman, the chances of you having a penis are pretty slim, so you’re going to need to get one. Unlike men, you can choose the shape, size and even colour of yours. The best equipment for beginners is a strap on with a harness. Tami suggests her vibrating velvet harness that increases your pleasure too. Optionally, her platinum lace corset strap on crosses the harness with a sexy lingerie feel. However, whatever one you choose to use, remember to use lots of lube!

Get into position

Much like anything in the bedroom, there are so many different positions you can choose from, but it may take a few attempts to find the one that feels best for you. Doggystyle is the most obvious option for beginners as it is easy to achieve and gives you the best access. You can also let your partner take control by allowing them to push back onto you. Let them find the pace and level of penetration they’re comfortable with before you start thrusting.

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