A beautiful brunette model who slept with a married man to get her own back on a cheating boyfriend has admitted: "I'm now addicted to having affairs."

Lacey Jay

Lacey Jay

Lacey Jay, 26, was devastated when her former builder boyfriend began seeing other girls behind her back and lied to her for months about his secret liaisons.

She knew the way to get her own back was by 'revenge cheating' the 27-year-old rat by having an affair of her own.

She began seeing a rich married stockbroker 10 years older than her who lavished her with gifts and took her on expensive breaks to luxury hotels.

She got the taste for the high life and has now had three further affairs with married men she met through a dating site for people who want to cheat.

Lacey said: "It all happened by accident when my boyfriend started cheating on me with a string of other girls.

"I suspected he was up to no good because he changed the pin on his phone and he started going out more frequently with his mates.

"I wanted to trust him but some friends tipped me off one night and I caught him red-handed with another girl.

"He promised he would not do it again and that he would remain faithful but still refused to give his phone pin so I could check who he had been speaking to. He is typical of men my own age - none of them can be trusted and they have no respect for women. They just treat us as sex objects. I think it is all down to the porn they watch all the time on their phones."

Lacey decided the best way to get her own back was to have an affair, too.

A friend of hers had started seeing richer older men she had met on IllicitEncounters.com, the UK's leading dating website for married people.

She had been whisked away on expensive breaks all over Europe and was having the time of her life.

Lacey had always been attracted to older men and Brad Pitt, 54, 28 years her senior, is her dream man.

So she decided to take the plunge and joined the site - and she was immediately inundated with offers from surprisingly handsome suitors.

Lacey, of Guildford, Surrey, said: "I was stunned by the reaction. I had dozens and dozens of good looking and incredibly rich older men desperate to take me out.

"In the end I chose a stockbroker in his mids 30s who lived in London - he was married but had an open relationship with his wife.

"He invited me up to the capital and we had the most amazing time, staying at the Dorchester and eating at the very finest restaurants.

"He bought me some jewellery from Tiffany and treated me like a princess. It made me realise just how immature men my own age really are - and also how skint they are.

"I guess I got a taste for the high life and It was nice to be with a man with good manners, courtesy and a few quid in his wallet. I'd rather dine in the Ivy restaurant than McDonald's!

"My lover was never going to stay faithful to me because he uses IllicitEncounters.com to have lots of affairs. I was fine with that because at least he wasn't lying to me like my ex-boyfriend.

"We stay in touch and I still see him whenever I am in London on modelling jobs."

Lacey, who boosted her bust from 34B to 34DD with a boob op four years ago, finally gave her boyfriend a taste of his own medicine by showing him pictures of her with her new lover and then dumping him for good.

Since then, she has seen three other older married men she has met through IllicitEncounters.com.

Affair number 2

Lacey said: "He is 35 and he runs his own marketing business. His wife had cheated on him early on in their relationship and he had never properly got over it and had had a few affairs of his own. He joined the site when their marriage was going through a bit of rocky patch. We went out and had a lot of fun and had some great sex. But he realised that he wanted to make a go of it with his wife and I am glad to say he has patched up his marriage."

Affair 3 

Lacey said: "He is 40 but he looks 15 years younger and is in amazing shape. He is a lawyer who doesn't believe in monogamy - he finds it impossible to stay faithful to any woman. I am one of several women he sees. This is just a case of pure lust. He is gorgeous."

Affair number 4 

Lacey said: "He is 35 and had married his childhood sweetheart, the first woman he had ever slept with. He has been with her for 12 years and I think they are both realising that they were too young to settle down. They don't want to split up just yet but are keen to sleep with other people discreetly - which is why they are both using IllicitEncounters.com. He is a lot of fun and works in property."

Lacey feels no guilt about her affairs because she says all the men would be cheating with other women if she was not involved.

She said: "They are all men who wanted to embark on affairs before I came along. I don't see the harm in them enjoying some discreet sex and exciting dates. I am certainly not a home wrecker and would never date a man who had not been unfaithful before.

"I've got a taste for richer older men now and I don't think I will be able to stop. I don't want to break up anyone's marriage - I just want to have some fun with men who treat me properly. I've had it with men of my own age."

llicitEncounters.com spokesman Christian Grant said that increasing numbers of beautiful young women in their 20s were joining the site because they were fed up with men their own age.

He said: "They want to be wined and dined and treated respectfully, and they are simply not getting that level of care from men their own age who are only interested in sex."

Every week, around 20,000 people in the UK are having affairs on IllicitEncounters.com.

More than one million people have registered with the site since it started in 2003 and the highest proportion of members are wealthy people in London and the Home Counties. 

The average income of male members is £54,000-a-year.

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