The most commonly Googled sex question is 'Where is the G-spot?', followed by 'How to make a woman orgasm.' Here Lovehoney sex and relationship expert Annabelle Knight reveals exactly how to locate the G-spot as well as offering lots of advice on how to orgasm through G-spot stimulation including during intercourse.

Annabelle Knight

Annabelle Knight

Where is the G-spot?

The G-spot lies on the anterior wall of the vagina, about 5-8cm above the opening to the vagina. It is easiest to locate if a woman lies on her back and inserts her middle finger into the vagina. The G-spot is on the top wall of the vagina halfway between the vagina opening and the cervix. The spot should feel a little rough, almost like the surface of a walnut. By using a 'come here' motion with the middle finger, a woman can stimulate the G-spot. The tissue surrounding the urethra, called the urethral sponge, will begin to swell. This swelling area is the G-spot. At first, this touch may make the woman feel as though she needs to wee, but after a few seconds may turn into a pleasurable sensation."

Is the G-spot actually real?

Yes, of course, the G-spot is real. There have been studies questioning its existence but these have been largely discredited. Not every woman has a G-spot but around 60% do.

What are your top tips for stimulating the G-Spot?  

Some women may not be able to reach that far with their fingers to locate their G-spot. That's is what sex toys were invented for.

A G-spot vibrator like the one I developed for Lovehoney, which has a curve at the end, has been created specifically for this purpose. Once you have hit the spot, gently rub the toy back and forth over the area. It should feel amazing.

You can also stimulate the G-spot with your partner. Get him to insert his middle figure and curve it back towards himself once its inside you - again gently rubbing the 'walnut' area which is the G-spot should provide pleasurable stimulation.. He can gently rub the clitoris at the same time with his thumb.

Some guys have a slight curve in their penis when erect. Women can use that curve to their advantage by angling the sex position so his penis is hitting up against the  G-spot during penetration. 

If he has a straight penis, there are sex positions women can use during intercourse to maximise the chances of G-spot stimulation. The Butterly is a good one.You sit on a table while he enters you standing up. He places his hands under your hips so he can hold you close while he thrusts. This position should put his penis right in line with the G-spot.

* Annabelle is one of the UK's most popular sex experts and she appears regularly on ITV's This Morning offering sex and relationship advice. She has developed her own range of sex toys for Lovehoney, the UK's largest online sex toy retailer. Her debut erotic novel, The Endless Autumn, is available via Amazon.