Porn has over later years got a pretty bad name for itself and in most cases, quite right too. However we can’t ignore that pornography does have a useful place as a sexual aid and thereby offers many benefits. With the right circumstances, watching good ethical porn together as a couple can be mutually beneficial and do plenty for your sex life.

Anna Richards

Anna Richards

Websites such as Frolicme.com offers explicit beautifully produced adult films showing better sex online for couples who are looking to explore and widen their personal sexual adventures together. So for me here are 10 very good reasons why we should with care enjoy watching some erotic porn online with our partner.

Mutual agreement - finding a site that you can both share and enjoy together is the first step to enjoying porn as a couple. It will bring you closer together with your decisions of what you want and when you want to view some arousing pleasure.

Intimacy – this will certainly grow as you both learn what turns each other on sexually and what it is that stimulates your mind and body. Watching together will build a better sexual connection as you discuss openly your deeper desires on what you may have secretly enjoyed before.

Talking together - about your preferences will build easy real honest discussion over your preferred sex together. By exploring the world of online adult films together you can open up and communicate more easily over aspects of your own sexual pleasure you may not have done so previously.

Excitement – and the thrill factor will be something you can both share in as you experience the fun and pleasure better sex can bring you both.

Happy relationships - are those that focus on the pleasure of sex together. Many couples find watching quality erotic porn is a great marital aid and stimulates honest sexual practice and better openness and pleasure. This in turn only makes your own sex life so much better.

Gets us in the mood - and ready to be more receptive to each other’s sexual advances. It is of course highly proven how watching explicit sexual intercourse between others will activate neurons in our brains triggering aroused messages which naturally leads to sexual tension and a need for an outlet. So when we want to get to the same aroused state, watching porn will most certainly help get us there and remove the stresses and thoughts of the day to be receptive to some sexy fun.

Experiment - and be creative. Watching others in different scenarios, positions and pleasure driven actions will offer couples an education platform of ways to improve and enhance their own sexual relations. Porn is often seen as a laboratory of the mind and one must not forget it is there as a fantasy to offer pleasure and stimulation. Fantasies lead to discovering new positions and sexy scenarios that you can then play out too.

Foreplay – this can become much more intense and heighten the moment as you enjoy teasing and arousing your partner while watching an intense sexual scene. Your body will naturally respond with far stronger desire for pleasuring your partner as your brain is visually taking in the sexual imagery. If time is limited it will also accelerate the pace for you both, allowing you to enjoy that naughty “quickie” in often very busy lives.

Understanding that you both can be very turned on and attracted to other body types and people is healthy. It helps you to realize that attraction to others does not mean your partner is less attracted to you. We all have a biological response to find more than one person desirable by just their looks without threatening our own close relationship to one special person.

Act out desires together and the chances are you will be less likely to look elsewhere for some extra fun. Taking the time to explore and act out your own fantasies and desires will keep your own sexual relationship hot and spicy. Knowing so much more about each other by using erotic porn as a trigger factor will bring a whole wealth of pleasure and sexual creative energy into your own relationship.

Anna Richards is the founder of erotic site www.frolicme.com specialising in the creation of exclusive and very naughty erotic entertainment online. The go-to site for men, women and couples featuring adult 18+ films, erotic stories, beautiful arousing photographic galleries and online magazine. Voted Erotic Site of the Year 2017 & 2018, Richards is one of the most prolific female producers of erotic films, having produced nearly 200 adult films online already.


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