Your date night interactions can fall into a pattern of 'what do you want for tea?' or 'how was work today?' Although it's important to know how your partner is faring at work and to plan in your meals- it's useful to have a few new questions tucked up your sleeve to keep things fresh and interesting. We take a look at some of the questions you could be asking that will break the mould.

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Relationships on Female First

  1. What's your favourite date night we have ever had?
  2. Which sex session is most memorable for you?
  3. What food is most reminiscent of me?
  4. If you could choose a cartoon character that's most like me- who would it be?
  5. When's the last time you thought of me when we weren't together in a good way?
  6. What do you most value of the things I do for you?
  7. Which movie is most like our relationship?
  8. Which parent do you take after more?
  9. Which of your characteristics do you hope our kids will have?
  10. What do I do in bed that you enjoy the most?
  11. What do you think I could improve on?
  12. When do you most enjoy having sex?
  13. Do you prefer kissing or hugging me?
  14. When did you know that you wanted to be with me for the rest of your life?
  15. Do you get jealous when I talk to the opposite sex?
  16. Do you ever have dreams about me?
  17. What needs more work in our relationship?
  18. Do you think I would care for you if you were seriously sick?
  19. Do you believe that I am in love with you?
  20. When did you first want to kiss me?
  21. What's your favourite thing we do together that's not sex?
  22. Did you trust both of your parents as a child?
  23. What's your fondest memory of something I did for you on a special occasion?
  24. What sexual fantasy you have always wanted to try?
  25. What's your favourite sexual position?
  26. Do you ever think about having sex with me during the day?
  27. What could I do to make you trust me more?
  28. What do I do to make you feel protected?
  29. How can I make you feel safer with me?
  30. When we are with friends do you still feel like you're my number one person?
  31. When we're with family do you feel like you're my first priority?
  32. What are our relationship deal breakers?
  33. What was your first thought of me?
  34. When were you first attracted to me?
  35. How long should couples wait before having children?
  36. What have you learned from your parents about marriage?
  37. What have your parents taught you about physical affection?
  38. What's your favourite book?
  39. What's your favourite song?
  40. What was your favourite movie as a kid?
  41. What do you want to do when you retire?
  42. Do you see yourself having grandchildren?
  43. If you didn't have the job you do- what would be your alternative career?
  44. What physical, feature do you love the most on yourself?
  45. Who was your favourite teacher as a child?
  46. What your favourite memory of being with your mum and dad?
  47. Which ex has had the biggest impact on you before me?
  48. Did you prefer high school or college?
  49. Where have you always wanted to go to?
  50. Did you ever consider doing something different for work?
  51. What was your favourite year in high school?
  52. What's the best party you have ever attended?
  53. When you have been at your happiest?
  54. When have you felt at your most anxious?
  55. When have you been the angriest?
  56. Do you believe in a higher power?
  57. What question have you never asked me but always wanted to?
  58. What's your best personality trait?
  59. Which personality trait do you wish you didn't have?
  60. Have you ever been obsessed over something?
  61. What did you collect when you were little?
  62. What accomplishment are you most proud of in your life so far?
  63. Which parent did you go to when you wanted to talk?
  64. What's the most scared you ever felt when you were little?
  65. Where do you want to live in 10 years' time?
  66. If you had to be stranded on a desert island with one of your friends- who would it be?
  67. Which if your friends is closest to you in looks and personality?
  68. What's your view on long distance relationships?
  69. Would you even start a business up with me?
  70. Would you rather have a summer house, a year-long vacation or a boat?
  71. What would you spend a million pounds on?
  72. If you had £1,000 to spend only on yourself- what would you buy?
  73. Did you feel like you fitted in when you were a kid?
  74. What was your favourite subject in school?
  75. When did you go through puberty?
  76. Who was your first crush?
  77. Who did you first kiss?
  78. Who had a crush on your first?
  79. Do you think you're an introvert or an extrovert?
  80. If you could go back in time- what age would you go back to?
  81. If you could see into the future- would you want to know when you die?
  82. What's your best talent?
  83. What is your best trait?
  84. What makes me different from all of your exes?
  85. What is the best thing about us as a couple?
  86. Do you even compare yourself to your friends and family?
  87. Which of my friends do you like the most?
  88. Which of my friend do you dislike the most?
  89. Are you an optimist, pessimist or realist?
  90. When you wake up in the middle of the night- what pops into your head?
  91. If you had to change one thing about yourself what would it be?
  92. Did you rebel against your parents when you were in your teens?
  93. Who are you closest to in your extended family?
  94. Would you have been happier as an only child/ with more siblings?
  95. How have your siblings/ being an only shaped you as a person?
  96. What is your least favourite date night we have ever shared?
  97. What do you think about me when we first see each other after work?
  98. Do you wish you could read my mind?
  99. How do you continue to know that I'm the one?
  100. Do you think we talk enough?

So go for it- print this out and ask away- you may know some of the answers already- but you are bound to learn at least one thing about your partner from this list!

Inspired by article on www.lifehack.org.