faith asks :

Is it normal for a man to ma***rbate everyday whilst looking at a porn website. Does it mean that he is unhappy with his partner sexually or that he prefers to please himself out insread of having sex with his wife

Masturbation does not mean that your relationship is not going well. It is healthy and normal to masturbate whether in a relationship or not. The only time it becomes an issue is if you are replacing sex with you wife with masturbation.

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If you prefer to please yourself instead of having sex with your wife then this is down to communication. If there is something that you do to yourself that you prefer, then you should tell her, get her involved. If you are keen to reignite the flame, talk to her and let her know what she can do to make you happier in bed. You may find that there are things that she would like you to change too.

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