Ruth asks :

I have a small clitoris and I’m pretty sure it’s leading to my not being able to have an orgasm during intercourse.

My partner can please me with oral stimulation but I still feel like my sex life will always be lacking in some way.

Is there any way to fix my problem?

Yin replies

I have heard about treatments, one being testosterone cream. It has been reported that this will, after 6 weeks, increase the clitoris size by two times.

However, with products and "wives tales" such as these, you must be very careful who you buy things from and whether they are suitable for you to use.

Therefore I would recommend that you see your doctor and ask him if there is anything that you can do.

Yang replies

Have you ever tried using a clitoral stimulator? This could work wonders for you as the vibration would stimulate your clitoris no matter how big it is.

They come in all shapes and sizes and can be found on our Lingerie Catalog. This may add to the please of sex, as you will be able to have intercourse while you clitoris is being stimulated.

Just an idea!

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