Chelsea Rivers asks :

is it okay to use an electric toothbrush to m***urbate in the bath? i just feel a little bit ill after my first orgasm and i was wondering if i haven't done it right.

You are probably better investing in a vibrator rather than substituting your toothbrush. Although using other (safe) objects for pleasure can often be a good thing and a money saver, if it is making you feel ill then you should stop using it. You can buy vibrators from as little as £10 form your local Ann Summers so they are not as expensive as you think.

 am i doing it wrong?

am i doing it wrong?

An orgasm can leave you feeling weak and wobbly, but they wouldn’t leave you to the point of feeling ill. Perhaps it was the combination of the heat from the bath and the physical exhaustion you might be feeling if you have been masturbating or a while. Try doing it in bed while you get used to things as water is not a great lubricant and invest in some good lube too! There really is not right or wrong with masturbation, as long as you are not hurting yourself by using vibrators that are too big for you. It will take practice to know exactly what you want, but when the time comes, you will be glad you invested the energy!

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