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29 June 2015

Why won't my girlfriend agree to anal sex?

There are many things that can put a woman off having anal sex with their partner. Firstly- it can hurt- unless you are very gentle- there is the possibility that ...

26 June 2015

Did I lose my virginity?

A virgin is defined as 'someone who has never engaged in sexual intercourse', which is traditionally characterised by the penis entering the vagina- or 'vaginal intercourse' or 'vaginal sex'. The ...
23 June 2015

Why am I not interested in sex anymore?

This could be due to many things. Does your partner satisfy you in bed? Perhaps your old partner did and your new lover doesn't and you are comparing the two. ...

17 February 2015

Why can't I climax with anyone other than my ex?

Hi Paula, Vibrators can be our best friend or our worst enemy as they can make women desensitised as you have rightly pointed out. If you close your legs, the vibrations ...

30 January 2015

Why does my vagina makes noises when I'm lying down?

Hi Sammy, This is perfectly normal- the vaginal fart is something that all women experience at least once in their life. Simply put- air enters the vagina due to sex, masturbation ...

3 January 2015

How can I ask my boyfriend to stop watching x rated material?

Hi Anonymous, It’s important to remember that men are very visual creatures and much prefer to have something to watch while masturbating. Women on the other hand can suffice with just ...
9 December 2014

I have a lump on my vagina- what should I do?

Hi Anonymous, This can be worrying for any woman so it’s no surprise that you are finding it hard to leave alone. If you shave down there, it could be in ingrown ...

18 November 2014

How can I stop self pleasuring?

Hi Hazza, If you are intent on reducing the amount of time you spend masturbating then I would suggest that you take away all temptations. Ban yourself from the sites you ...
31 October 2014

I'm a virgin and my boyfriend is large

Hi Anonymous,  Before you lose your virginity I would recommend that you have at least a few successful masturbation sessions. If you find it difficult and painful it could be that ...

15 October 2014

Why can't my husband reach orgasm?

Hi Marie, It sounds like it might be something psychological that is stopping him from reaching orgasm. Maybe you could talk to him about getting pregnant- is it what he really ...
3 September 2014

We had a**l sex- is she cheating on me?

Hi I, Perhaps she finally has enough trust in the relationship to be able to take your sex life to another level. Anal sex takes a lot of trust and sometimes ...

11 August 2014

I've found my dad's porn stash- how can I stop my mum finding out?

Hi Mark, It can be uncomfortable talking to your parents about anything of a sexual nature, especially when it’s about their particular preferences. It might be that your mum already knows ...
29 July 2014

Why am I so concerned about the way my vagina looks?

Hi Melanie, All vaginas look different- there is nowhere that says they have to be a certain size or shape. Some women have larger labia than others. If you find the ...
10 July 2014

How can I forgive my husband for going to a massage parlour?

Hi Wendy, Infidelity is one of the hardest things that a married couple potentially has to face and forgiveness and trust might be difficult to comprehend when you have only just ...
7 July 2014

Should I stay with my husband if I don't fancy him anymore?

Hi Laura, Although being ‘caring, considerate and loyal’ are wonderful attributes in a man, in any relationship there still needs to be some element of physical attraction, otherwise you are simply ...
8 June 2014

Why won't my boyfriend have regular sex with me?

Hi Jayne, Women often automatically think that when men don’t want to have sex with them that it's down to their attractiveness, when actually it could be a good number of ...

12 March 2014

'She never has an orgasm during sex....'

Hi Robert, It sounds like this is the one thing that is getting in the way of your relationship when everything else is going so well. Remember that most women can’t orgasm ...

11 March 2014

'I'm finding it hard to orgasm.....'

Hi Holly, This sounds very frustrating for not only you but your partner too, when the medication might be helping you in some ways and not others. Why not go back to ...

16 February 2014

'I get around a bit......'

Hi Roisin, It sounds like you are craving love and attention you lacked with your previous partner but finding it in the wrong places. Those who you go out with may get ...
13 February 2014

'It hurts when he's on top of me....'

Hi Quelli,   As with anal sex in any position, a lot of lube is a good idea. Unlike the vagina, the anus does not produce its own natural lubricant when its ...
17 January 2014

I can't climax from penetrative sex

Hi Jasi,   Most women don’t experience orgasm with their partners inside them. It doesn’t mean that there is a problem with either of you. It’s simply down to the way women ...

15 January 2014

He's having live chat sex with other women!

Hi Angela,   You have come to terms and found the understanding when for he watches porn.  A lot of women could not find it in themselves to accept this, so the ...
13 December 2013

Am I still a virgin?

Hi Esther, thanks for getting in touch! If you didn’t have penetrative sex then you are still classed as a virgin by most heterosexuals. Some cultures and people of different sexual ...
9 December 2013

Is masturbation bad?

Hi Sarah, thanks for getting in touch! Masturbation is a natural process so no, it’s not bad. Some people feel guilty because of their family and upbringing where sex is not ...

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