Social media can play a huge part in a wedding or a non-existent one. Some celebrities are opting to release certain photos on social media, but that's all- such as Poppy Delavigne, Kelly Clarkson and Beyoncé. Think back to Brad and Jen- only one solitary pic was released after their big day. Other brides such as Carey Mulligan and Leighton Meester are tying the knot and no one knows about it for weeks afterwards.

Weddings on Female First

Weddings on Female First

Brides are increasingly happy to post pictures of dresses they like on their Pinterest pages and Facebook to gauge if people like their choices and to help them pick the one if there is too much variety. For those who don't have either mothers or bridesmaids nearby, it is an invaluable tool for getting some input. However beware if you pick one like the dresses you have been sporting on social networking sites, it might not be as much of a surprise to your groom on the big day!

In light of this, David's Bridal has come up with the ultimate list of social media etiquette at weddings:

Bridesmaids- Often the only ones who see the bride before she walks down the aisle; they should not post any pics of her on Facebook beforehand. This ruins the surprise for the groom and all the wedding guests.

The bride and groom always come first- If they don't mind you posting pictures of their big day at least wait until they have put the first one on there themselves. It's only considerate to do so-it is after all- their news to tell.

Videos- Many are saying 'no' to a video on You Tube on the off chance it goes viral. If it's not complimentary towards the bride and the groom, they won't be too pleased. You might find it funny but put yourself in their shoes- would you?

Bride and groom get dibs- The bride and groom should be the only ones to post pics from their wedding according to 22%- like any picture posted on Facebook, people like to check themselves out first- would you want a horrendous picture sent out to over 1,000 people that doesn't bring you out looking your best? Let's face it, on your wedding day you should look the most beautiful you will ever look, so a bad photo ruins that aspiration.

Facebook statuses- Many brides change their status the same day or the day after to let people know that they are betrothed- before they change it at the bank, on their passport and on their driver's licence, which are arguably more important! 


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