If you’ve been with the same partner for a long time then things in the bedroom can get a little mundane.

How To: Liven up your Love Life

How To: Liven up your Love Life

It’s easier to fix than you realise so here are some tips on how to liven up your sex life, enjoy!

New Position

It’s the simplest thing to change and there are so many different positions to try so why not experiment?

If you’re sick of the same position every time you have sex then let you partner know you want to try something new.

Ask him if there is anything he’d like to try and tell him which ones you’d like to give a go then start trying them out, there’s bound to be one you both enjoy!


Don’t just limit your sex to the bedroom, pretend you’re teenagers again and christen every room in the house!

Sex outdoors can be amazing, the thought of been caught in the act can make for incredible sex but just make sure you’re not breaking any laws.

Sex Toys

Some people see them as a big taboo but they are actually a great way of recharging your sex life and making things more satisfying.

Bullet vibrators are great for slipping between you both during sex to stimulate your clitoris, making it much easier to orgasm, and vibrating cock rings have a similar effect.

Strokers are great for your man to build up his stamina and make him last longer with regular use, so it’s well worth the investment!

Light Bondage

We’re not talking red room of pain style bondage, just some light playful bondage can really change things in the bedroom.

Simply investing in a blindfold can really spice things up as it will heighten the wearer’s senses and make them super sensitive to touch.

If you want to take a step further, invest in some ties, a paddle and a tickler which will enhance sensations even further!

More Sex!

Probably the most obvious of all the tips, but having more sex will spice up your sex life massively, especially if you’re implementing the rules above.

Experts say you should be having sex 2 to 3 times a week. Not only will you discover more about what works for your partner but you’ll also feel more connected.

Have you got any tips for spicing up your sex life? Let us know by commenting below or tweeting us @FemaleFirst_UK

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