The Super Hero

Elena Burnett

Elena Burnett

Men are not your super heroes; they can't be all of the things you or I want them to be all of the time. Don't expect him to be your everything!

The Idea to Change Him Around

We must stop building the fantasy that we can change a man and mold him in to our ideal partner. What you see is what you get. Take it or leave it!

All Men are the Same

Women have the capacity to attract many types of men; however, you are responsible for the one you choose to keep in your life. If your relationships are not working, don't blame them, blame yourself. You should have said no from day one if you felt he was not right for you. There are wonderful men out there, and you will find them when you put more value in yourself and thought in to what you can and can't tolerate from them. So think before you let him in.

Sex is All They Want

Yes! That's the first thing that makes a man interested in you, but that's not all there is. It is your job to raise a man's consciousness from his more basic desires to his heart. Men want to fall in love too, but don't think for one second that just giving him sex will do the trick, though he may try to convince you otherwise.

Expecting Honesty About His Sexual Life

If you are dating a guy, please stop asking him if he is seeing someone else. He should be the one asking you that. Rather than asking if he is getting laid lately, the right question to ask is: When was the last time you had a serious girlfriend? On the other hand, stay alert of him telling you exactly what you want to hear. A man knows you are asking those types of questions because you want to hear the word 'exclusivity' come from him. That is what makes you feel special and he knows it.

Expecting More Calls, Expecting More

Building a relationship from scratch takes time. If you want to build something of substance, you must let it unfold at its own pace. Expecting more from someone you just met is asking for too much so don't chase them around or sit waiting for them while your life passes you by. No new man in your life would do it for you or me. They need space to decide whether they want to invest in you. Take your time to do the same. It takes two to build a relationship, so do your part.

The Fairy Tale Formula: How to Win a Man ' s Heart by Elena Burnett (published by Bryce Collen Publishing RRP £8.99 and RRP 2.99 ebook) is available to purchase from online at retailers including amazon.com and ordered from all good bookstores. For more information, please visit: www.elenaburnett.com