Are you looking for some helpful examples on how to talk dirty to your boyfriend? This is something that a lot of women are interested in these days. Talking dirty will really turn a guy on. It can also enhance a woman’s sexual experience. If you use the right words, you’ll really drive him wild, and he’ll do a better job in bed. Unfortunately, a lot of women have no idea what to say.

That doesn’t mean you can’t learn! It’s actually not that hard to learn. Most guys are easy to please, so with a little practice, you’ll really drive your guy crazy! 

When I first started talking dirty to my boyfriend, I sounded nervous and unsure of myself. I discovered that the biggest turn-off for a guy is when a woman doesn’t sound confident when she talks dirty. I practiced more and tried new phrases. It actually didn’t take that long at all for me to become a great sex talker.

I managed to overcome my nervousness. It actually wasn’t hard. I just used words that I was comfortable saying. I practiced when I was alone. All you have to do is get yourself in the mood and practic

If I could do it, so can you!

Here are a few tips for getting started. 

1. Think about what is holding you back.  Is it shyness? Reservations? Uncertainty? Many women are held back by talking dirty. You just need to let go of whatever’s holding you back and give it a try. Start out slow if you have to. You don’t have to say much when you start out. Just say a few words here and there until you start to feel more comfortable.

2. How can you overcome your nervousness?  I managed to overcome my nervousness. It actually wasn’t hard. I just used words that I was comfortable saying. I practiced when I was alone. All you have to do is get yourself in the mood and practice by yourself. When you’re with him, just say words that don’t make you blush.

3. What does he like? Fortunately, guys pretty open about all forms of dirty talk. Still, some of them have preferences. Some might not like it if you sound like a girl in a porn video. For others, the dirtier you sound the better. Does your guy like to be complimented for his moves? Does it like it when you’re aggressive? Find out what he likes and work towards that.

4. Be spontaneous. Dirty talk doesn’t have to be limited to the bedroom.  When you’re having dinner, tell him that you can’t wait until later, that you have “a nice surprise” for him. Send him a few sex messages on his phone when he’s at work.

Okay. Now that you know what you need to do, you can look over some examples.

Here are some examples on how to talk dirty to your boyfriend.  

• “I want to feel your hands all over me.”
• “I need you inside me, right now!” 
• “I’m your bad girl. Spank me!” 
• “You’ve been a bad boy. Let me punish you now.” 
• “Do you like it when I do this?”
• “I really love it when you touch me right… here…” (take his hand and guide him)
• “You’re so big and hard.” 
• “Yea, baby! Harder!”
• “Am I wet enough for you?”
• “You know how hot you make me feel?” 
• “Look at me when I cum!” 
• “I want to feel your body close to mine.”
• “I’ve been thinking about what I want to do with you all day.”

You should now have some ideas of what to say when it comes to dirty talk! Once you get the hang of it, you’ll have more confidence.  You can even get him to talk dirty to you!

Author Bio Heather Jennings has been helping women everywhere discover how to talk dirty to a man without feeling embarrassed. Afterall, there's nothing worse than using these talk dirty examples and not giving it your full, confident bedroom voice.

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  1. by Misty 18th Sep 2012 20:52

    Your talking dirty article was so very helpful to am going to start tonight with my baby(husband). thank you

  2. by Sandra S 30th Sep 2012 16:43

    Some really good tips, thanks.

    I found that the most important factor of all was understanding what he wanted. I thought I knew, but I couldn't have been further off!

  3. by ciara 26th Nov 2013 22:38

    Omg so helpful I like it